Whats wrong with this convo?

[Mastershroom]

At least give her some time and distance. That can give everyone some chance to clear their heads a bit, and I think that's exactly what you both need right now. And the next time you talk to her, try doing it in person.

[S.T.A.L.K.E.R.]

Nem, I added quote tags to your post because as I stated in the edit comment

Holy shit Nem, trying to read that was like stabbing myself with a fork in the hand over and over again

[Nemmerle]

You do that a lot then?

[S.T.A.L.K.E.R.]

Originally Posted by Nemmerle

You do that a lot then?

I don't question your fetishes, you don't question mine...





Ahem, on the topic I think Nem pretty much hit the nail on the head with all his points. I'd be worried if she wasn't a bit freaked out.

[Jeff]

You were coming off as a little 'pushy' to say the least in that conversation. From what I read of it, she was simply trying to be nice to you, but really doesn't know how to end it without hurting you. Women respond a hell of a lot better to confidence, especially in the high school years. Right now the way you were talking to her was more desperate sounding and whiny.

I'd suggest leave her alone until she contacts you again. Respect her side of things and when she contacts you back wondering why you haven't tried to contact her lately, just let her know you realized you were being a little obsessive and wanted to give her some space. She "should" respond in a positive way realizing you were respecting her feelings in this matter. Also, don't just say it, mean it.

[WiseBobo]

You have a lot of growing up to do before you start dating, if this is any indication of your behavior. Next time try being more of a gentleman than an asshole.

[Videoslave]

Yeah I agree with everyone.
However I think its worth mentioning this but I was actually born with a communication problem were I would tell someone exactlly what I am thinking and or feeling and this girl dosent have any knowledge of this and I did want to tell her but I felt unconfortable.

There is an actual diagnosis that I have recived becuase of this problem.

[Junk angel]

Well sometimes it's better to say nothing instead of the truth to be honest.
It would benefit you greatly. Most of all, after the first can't you should have drawn the conversation to a completely different topic.

And well, once she said that you weirded her and her friends out - I think you hit the crux there. I don't know how you did it, but unless she's overtly sensitive, it must have been something quite apparent.

I got the entire feel from her, that she just kept talking to you, from a point of courtesy to be honest, or she seemed to be willing to talk, but about completely different things.
You on the other hand kept pressing it the whole time. Almost like:"Unless you go out with me, I'll hurt myself."
Well as someone else said, as the clingy emo.

[The Body Popper]

Leave her alone. Dont talk to her again. At least not untill she tries to talk to you again. If she wants to talk to you again. But leave that up to her.

And I used to be this way too (minus the comms issue). and now I have a lovely girlfriend whom I im uite infatuated with (the relationship is still to young to say that I love her).

So just stop being so clingy and needy. Start being more confident. And dont act like your begging her to stay or else youll never be right in the head. That just freaks people out.

[Videoslave]

Well I might be able to talk to her again becuase my friend who hooked me up with her told me he'll try to get her to unblock me on msn again. So if say she decides to unblock me but she isn't talking to me exactly what happend the last time should I start off with a greeting or this is a bad move on my part becuase of this peice of history?