Could women actually be more sexual (generalization)
 

Could women actually be more sexual (generalization)

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Ive often wondered about this. (mature concept warning ) The multiple, large orgasms suggests a larger sexual burden than ours. Science clearly suggests that such large amounts of sexual biological cells would lead to a greater sexual desire than even our own.

They do cover it up. Very sexual beings would be very emotional people, just as are women . Further studies may prove or disprove it but I believe that women are more sexual than men.

Well...I would not say more sexual. I think guys have a stronger sex drive. They are sorta instant all the time. Girls kinda need more time I guess. We still have desires....it just that it takes us a little longer to get at the same height and drive as a guy. I think the advantage that girls have is that we can experience several orgasims sometimes but a guy just normally has one and seems to be satisfied and wants to roll over and go to sleep. It is hard to explain but I think guys need to learn a little bit about what girls desire. I think foreplay is very important and that respect is the key to a girls heart.

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Speaking absolutely generally, neither gender has a stronger sex drive. To put it crudely, if you've ever seen a wound-up girl, there is no way you can say they are any less sexual then men.

You're practically going alternative feminist on us, Briankory. Women may naturally have a same level sex drive as men, but society molds the mind away from what we are born as, to the way we live here and now. It's "bad" for a woman to have lots of sex, but good for a guy to have lots of sex. It's a paradox created by years of sexual repression in human society, and it sucks. Damned women, they want everything, have all the power over sex, and are the only things worth having sex with. If you don't get it, I'm over emphasizing for the point to be made clear, and hopefully humorous, just in case your humor has been ripped from you by a tragic accident.

No , no accident, Im just believing that women are more sexual. I have always wondered. I dont necessarly mean the act of sex either. Im just curious if women are more sexually wired than men whether they realize it or not.

2 experienced mature men in this thread said yes and only younger newbs said as much as men and one person said no, so Im not out to lunch entirely.

I heard women don't fantasize about sex but once a day (or so). I have a feeling that is a bit off, but even if women fantasize half a dozen times, I think men still think about it more.

Ahah, if only that were true. :( It can be distracting.

But as for women having higher or lower sex drives, I don't think that's the case. I think it's about equal, but it's set off by different things, and handled in different ways. A lot of girls are taught to suppress their "sexual urges," whereas for guys it's just seen as something to expected of them. So girls hide it, ignore it, etc. I wasn't ever taught to think that way, and as a result, I tend be rather...fiendish.

I know this chick who was all churchy, but then said screw it, and then she became a nympho. True story.

So, I would say women and men can be equal.

Actually from the study I remember, it's a bit different.
Women, fantasize about sex more often than men.
And I myself would say, that yes, women are more sexual than men. Even if more indirectly.
Men are far more direct

I agree there.

I guess I could agree with that. Since women are brought up to "suppress their sexual urges," they would probably end up thinking about the forbidden more than man who are really allowed to be openly sexual. It's similar to the churchy girl I mentioned earlier.

If I recall, the average is 6 thoughts per hour on average for men towards sex, what's it towards women.

I voted no, because in the world where people interact, beyond the mind, if such a place truly exists, women due typical show less open interest in sex and are less active on their thoughts than men.

Sexual as I would define it is one's apparent interest in sex, versus one's inner interest.

6 minutes, women 9.

I believe that homosexual males and women both have personalities that are more sexually driven that males. Whether or not they both reveal it, or think it about sex I believe that there bodies are sending messages to their brains conditioning their personalities .

Im not sure what habits and behaviors of women that I notice make me believe that they are in fact more sexual but I do believe in it. Whether women think about it or not , I believe that there bodies are more sexual , without thinking about it naturally there bodies would not be as driven or direct as males however female bodies scientifically do have the larger, and multiple orgasms. I believe that there body is very much so more sexual but perhaps controlled at an early age where as a man gets an instant urge and does not practice control, yes ,perhaps I believe in that single statement. I still believe over all women are more sexual by nature but perhaps just more controlled. Its a weird concept but I will look into it more. Speculate further if you wish.

I'm glad I’m not average, I’d hate to think about sex as much as most men apparently do, especially during the day hours. During the evening it's different, but even then... six times an hour just strikes me as.. odd.

I don't think the multiple orgasms are a factor, men can achieve multiple sessions per hour, but you wouldn’t be able to find those who act on their current state of mind as much as they think about it, even if they didn’t have jobs, school or other things to do.

The "drive" is a chore more than anything; being single will do that i guess. :P

I wonder though if they are trying to say that it is conscious and non conscious drives, thoughts, increases or imbalances, fluctuations yaddy yadda or like but different chemical changes which send sexual ideas to your body whether or not you are aware of those messages consciously.

The body is chemical and physical , females generally seem to have larger doses of sexual ...substance , however they seem to be more mature and controlling over it. I still say the multiple orgasms are a factor, your average male can achieve a few within an hour but no where near as much as a female can.

TG for the un average male like tas and i.

I don't think they are necessarily more controlling about it, I just think females in general are more reserved, due to their personality or their upbringing. I'd say my mom's a 2nd-gen feminist, and my dad prefers not to discuss things she already has, so I think that's made me more prudish than most of my male and a good amount of my female peers. This may seem kinda offtopic, but I'm trying to point out that gender doesn't seems to play as big as role as your upbringing. It just happens that girls are generally influenced more and told to be more conservative with their sexuality.

I would say no and yes. It depends what you define as sexual. Looks, sex drive, or something else. It's been proven that most teenage girls, 17 and under, are much more mature then teenage boys, 17 and under. But once they hit the 18 mark, they're maturity drops dramaticly and the boys raises abit. The reason for this is thought to be because 18 is the age where you are considered an adult and your body is basicly done growing and your mind is fully developed, so because of that they are tricked into thinking they can do almost anything. We as human beings are so sick and twisted that way. By the way this only goes for America, I don't know if this applies for any other countries. Women are more sexual by nature but they're sex drive is not as strong. We men are less sexual but our sex drive is alot stronger and if a girl near our age, that we think is "hot", offers us sex, we will most likely take it. There are those few girls who will say yes immediatly if they are offered it by a boy they think is "hot". And there are those few boys who will say no. So yes Women are more sexual by nature but their sex drive is not as strong.

The theory (or law if you want) of Parental Investment dictates that as Women expend greater resources in the rearing of children then Men do, Women will be inclined to be highly selective OF mates. This suggest that competition for females will be greatest among the males of our species and as such the Males will have higher libido to compensate. I think women can be just as sexual as men can but thats more the exception proving the rule. Throughout human history it has been the menfolk who have really called the shots relationship-wise and any significant reversal of this is mostly a modern one eased into transition with the help of Legislature, and technology.