Do it only if you have a female friend please.
it's real awkward if a guy asks a girl this. It's just weird, believe me.

hehe, i just set a date up with my girl, im going to her house tommorrow^_^ She says they eat wierd food though, because their dads a vegitarian, ( im nervouse and a little scared, hehe) but yea, just ang out with her, invite her over, if she makes excuses all the time then she probably isnt interested.

Just make sure you look appreciative of the food

Will you people just wait for him to reply first?? It's like that One lone private taking orders from a squad of Generals...sheesh!!!

Im inclined to like this one the best so far, it also seems like the simplest one, and kind of what ive been doing all along. The only thing that worries me here is that she has plenty of guy friends, and i dont want to end up just another friend. As i said before, if she dont like me that way then so be it, but in case she does i dont want to let it wait long enough that she might give up.

Ah reminds me of 4th grade; if im going to be asking anyone itl be her directly. This is tempting though, lol. Besides, this can be misleading. Several of my friends have already asked me exactly that(though i doubt on her part) and lemme tell you, my reaction each time was a little short of revealing who i like and dont like, but thats just me.

lol its ok, im surprised im not getting destroyed on here anyway. Its such a commonplace problem, plus im prolly responsible for a lot of eyestrain by now.


I really do appreciate the feedback, everyone. :bows:

If you're unsure whether you're getting "special attention" or not, then theres only one thing you can really do about it. Confront her, and ask her what her feelings are. Are you just a friend to her, or does she see you as something more? Does she see a future in the two of you? Has she ever thought about asking you out? These are the questions you should be asking her, but before you do that, you should ask yourself this one question; if by chance she did like you, would you be willing to put your whole relationship with her on the line for the sake of dating her? You might like her as a friend, but from personal experience I can tell you that people can be seen in a whole new light once you enter the dating zone. Attitudes change, feelings sway and the whole relationship is put to the test. Are you willing to risk your friendship with her?

just to respond to some of the above, i have her number, we text each other occationaly and last last night she told me to go on msn and there were hints that she like me then her m8 came on and asked me who i liked i told her she told the girl i liked then they both logged off....

Well that is sound Advice and a wee bit on the risky side as well but I think the lad want's to take his time in feeling out the situation true it can backfire but any type of approach does unless handled carefully.

yeah, thats probably what im going to end up doing.

If you like her make eye contact at a medium level with her. A woman can tell if you love her by your eyes...and how you live your life baised on how you tie your shoes....

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