Just 2 question: Has no other guy asked her out on a date and stuff..and the 2nd question is: did she get asked out and rejected the invitation giving some obscure reason?? if you answer yes to all of these then your it Boy!!! ask her out..Nicely and with courtesy of course. if no then better make a defensive wall around her or else Romeo mignt come barging in and steal her away from you..

i wish i knew for sure, but all i can say to those questions would be 'not to my knowledge'. Its very true, knowing the answers could help a good bit in this situation. Im not too worried about romeo stealing her away, cause if she likes me as much as i like her, she shouldnt get involved in a relationship with someone else, not right now anyway. Im not interested in fighting for her like that; for me that would defeat the whole purpose. once she knows i like her i shouldnt have to fight for her, cause if she doesnt like me then im not going to try to make her. Not to sound like mr goodie two shoes or anything but thats the way i feel about this.

Well its you call since in the end the decision will be all up to you and not to any of us here. You forge your own path so to speak. but it will be nice to give us updates on your progress so some of the more compassionate members of the forums (and experienced on this kind of situation ) can give you some tips on how to do it w/out bungling.

sure, id be happy to :)

lol, guess what? i got the same thing, only that she knows i like her but i duno about her likeing me. known here for 3 years, but only just got 2 know her well in the past few months. there have been a few hints that she likes me but.. yano..

A restraining order is just another way of saying, "I love you too much"

yeah i know, sucks, dont it? :bawl:

hehheh :naughty:

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And If your not sure, maybe get one of your friends to ask her? But Dont make it to obvious, your friend should be like, "so you and (insert your name here) have been hanging out an awful lot lately, is something going on with you to?" and then your friend can tell you how she responds, or ask one of HER friends if she knows who she likes.

NO NO NO , you are going about it all wrong. You take steps in a relationship. Then you alter the path for a lasting relationship.

Simply ask her "Hey, do you want to hang out sometime ?"

That line is safe, just friends hanging out...

MAKE SURE YOU GET HER NUMBER. Friends are allowed to have eachother's numbers without being lovers.

That line will relieve you of all excitement and unease, in the most pleasant of possible ways.

It is not a drastitic change .

DO not break down , hump her or say I LOVE YOU , I LOVE YOU!

Just hang out , if it is love , you will end up kissing within the 1st few dates. When a man takes things to the next level and a woman is statisfied she wants to statisify her man in return. Yawe.... if it is love she will make the effort if you are the man and make the foundation for her to stand on.

So , you my lad hang out with her as a friend , and if it becomes more then it was love after all.

Veteran advice giver now goes silent. Take care.