Is that a bad thing?

There are two main tips I can give.

1. Do NOT over-analyze the situation. Just let it play out.

2. Be confident and direct in what you do. You like her? Ask her out, and not by asking, but throw out that you gonna do something and she should come too. Be in charge, for ex.
"You're coming to the park with me tomorrow at 7..."

ooo, sounds like you have a bit more goin for you then I do, my suggestion: Make yourself available. Thats what id do. If shes asking for you to hang out with her itl be easy to suggest little things; arm around her at movie, etc, and try to read her reaction.

That right there to me is a big hint... unless she does that to any of her guy friends...

Sounds like she has a crush on you to me. I Say you give it a few days, and then ask her out, whats the worst that could happen? If She says No, you can rest easy, and if it was never meant to be, it was never meant to be, although this may damage your friendship, but is taking the risk better than sitting around, being just that? friends? If it were I ( which it sorta is coz im in a similair case) I d go for it, i'd take the chance, i cant stand the curiosity, but im not making my move till next year, when i'll probably be old enough to keep a stable relationship.

Just go for it Man..you know what they say"No risk no reward."

yeah just ask her directly

are you even serious ??

Heh, nothing great was ever achieved without some good ol' risk involved...

I would say that would be a very bad (and offensive) thing to do. She isn't your property or petdog and that line would make it looks like you decide what's good for her..

What ever happend to kindly asking somebody of (s)he is interested in doing some sort of activity? :uhm:

yes, thats what i thought; ive never seen her sleepin on anyone else shoulder, but still that doesnt mean she doesnt. Like i said, shes real nice to everyone and very hard to read in this way(IMO), so i may just be another guy to her.

Same thing in what you mentioned, deaf man. Im only assuming she acts differently to me, i cant see everything. Even if she does treat me differently, it culd be for a hundred reasons other than that.

Yeah i agree that could be interpreted the wrong way, but i dont think so in this case. We talk like that all the time, it not carrying the weight of a true order, but lettin her know i really want to do w/e it may be. This may help me, i think. :)



what have i gotten my self into, i think about her every 3 seconds literaly, lol. I think my desicion for now will be to ride out the storm, and when the situation presents itself maybe introduce it to her very slowly and carefuly.