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Personally, I'd do the latter of Nemmerle's post ;)

But seriously, I'd make sure she go tthe message that you're not going out, I've seen this guy who tried to sugar-coat it, and well, let's just say that after a few days, he did the latter of Nemmerle's post. So make sure you get the message across. ;)

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"get outta there!"

That's my best advice. You shouldn't feel like getting wrapped up with someone you don't really like anymore, because, what's the point of dating someone you don't like?

Plus, if she's bringing up her bad home situation, she's one of those people you don't want to be a "caretaker" to.

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Play the gay card. That worked for me once, lucky I don't feel bad about kissing guys. Oh, wait you already slept with her. :p

Honestly, I would shame out and drop out. Say that you made a mistake first off, and that you didn't intend to ever have a relationship (do NOT say "with her"), and that in those circumstances, the sex was (perhaps) a bad idea. Your life can't handle the pressure of a relationship, and you would only end up dissapointing and feeling worse. You hate having to do this, but you're doing it now to stop something worse later down the track. You're sorry (but don't labour it), and you hope that she understands. You're having a tough time with one of your friends (she got pregnant and is really insecure and needs a lot of your time and support) and you feel that you can't divert time from her with a relationship with someone else.

Try that, if there's still time.
It's worked for me.

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Update: Did the phone call on the way out to a friends cabin (a good two day buffer zone). Hung out with her and my brother today, and things are fine, I think we can be friends easily, and she gets the point.

Am planning a date with the other girl.

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Did you say "it's not you, it's me?" Because I was just gonna rapidly post saying not to. :lol:

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Good luck. Work relationships usually end up with one person quiting.
How much do you like your job?
Ask yourself, is this new piece of ass worth your paycheck if something goes bad?
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Sometimes it works, I know a couple that works at the same place (but they didn't meet there), they don't seem to have any problems so far. Probably because they are too busy with their work :)

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I'm a supervisor at Dairy Queen (so's she)-- I don't think I'll be there much longer.

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Ahh, carry on then and dip that cone.
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