Girl Help
 

Ok, i need help with this 1 girl. Ive liked her for about 4 years and i can seem to be able to talk to her. Its so hard. I studder and everthing. But we talk on the internet alot. I just want to know how i can overcome my fear of talking to her. Plz help me with this problem.

Re: Girl Help
 

Time, practice, and experience. You are quite young, this awkwardness is normal.

Have more confidence in self, and it will be easier to talk without fearing what she may think of you.

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Thats what people always tell me, but it never works. Like, if i walked up to her, what would i say. She knows i like her, so thats why its hard to talk to her.

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That should make it easier. Just talk to her like she's naked. hahaha, just kidding. You'd drool all over her. No, just talk to her like she isn't there.

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Already tried it. Didnt work

Re: Girl Help
 

How? How it "didn't work"?

Explain, and we may be able to help you better. What happened? Did you not find appropriate words for her? Did you start stumbling through speech or spit at her?

Also, it may be relevant to discover how she feels toward you. Meaning: if you know she likes you, it will make things easier, so this will not be mystery any longer and give you confidence.

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Well, she used to like me. But now she wont tell me who she likes. Its just so hard because she is always around her friends and i never GET the chance to talk to her any more.

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I say, lay off and let her come to you. Sometimes teenage males push too hard--and so sometimes it's better to be cool, play it cool, and act like it means nothing to you if she comes around or not.

If she likes you, she'll come to you. If not, find someone else--she's probably young as well and doesn't know what the hell she wants (very few women actually do). ;)

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You just need to get the balls to go up to her and tell her how you feel!
If that don't work, then your OUT! She is gonna run off with some jock and you will never get that chance again!

Don't wanna sound like an ass, but that is how it is! A woman wants a man that knows what he wants and takes it!

Re: Girl Help
 

Ask to speak to her alone, make it clear it's important to you. Then ask if she like you. Very simple--if you do it, do it quickly. Or it builds up and becomes stressful the more you think about doing it.

This is also sensible.