My best friend, "sarah" is a lesbian. and she was has always gone on about she wants to have a baby. so, me and her were hanging out, and she asked me if I would be the father! i was like totally blown away, it just came olut of no wheres and totally caught me off gaurd. she said obviously she's let me be part of the kids life, and obviously would let the kid call me dad, dispite the fact she does have a girlfriend.
i don't know what to say. sarah is my besat friend, and has been for years. i really want to have kids myself, but not this early in life, i am only 21, although the girls will have no problem raising kid without any help from me, they both have very high paying jobs.
i to can support the kid myself. but this is not a question that everyone is asked.
i could really use someones advice here. and i do not want this to turn into a thread about how homosexuals should not be allowed to have kids or anytihng like that, or i will ask the admin's to lock this thread. i just don;t know what to say
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Umm.. im thinking to say something along the lines of "Sorry but no".
For me, having a kid with a girl... id definantly want her to be Straight.. and trust me she would be a MAJOR part of my life, im thinking you should suggest that she Addopt a Kid, or say no.
i would say no, the reason being that if you have a child, what effect will that have on a relationship that you have with some girl in the future?. How many girls are going to want to have a relationship with a guy who has fathered a child for a lesbian, not that im anti homosexual ok. you might think that it could be kept secret, but that would be difficult and cause problems later if you end up getting married someday.
Hmm, I'd do it. You are helping out your friend. But I don't think you should take the advice of anyone on this board. Think about it yourself and talk it out with both of the moms to be. Think about the best and worst case scenarios.
Hmm, I'd do it. You are helping out your friend. But I don't think you should take the advice of anyone on this board. Think about it yourself and talk it out with both of the moms to be. Think about the best and worst case scenarios.
Yeah, I think thats the best advise, just talk to each other about it
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