I've been asked a really odd question
 

My best friend, "sarah" is a lesbian. and she was has always gone on about she wants to have a baby. so, me and her were hanging out, and she asked me if I would be the father! i was like totally blown away, it just came olut of no wheres and totally caught me off gaurd. she said obviously she's let me be part of the kids life, and obviously would let the kid call me dad, dispite the fact she does have a girlfriend.
i don't know what to say. sarah is my besat friend, and has been for years. i really want to have kids myself, but not this early in life, i am only 21, although the girls will have no problem raising kid without any help from me, they both have very high paying jobs.
i to can support the kid myself. but this is not a question that everyone is asked.
i could really use someones advice here. and i do not want this to turn into a thread about how homosexuals should not be allowed to have kids or anytihng like that, or i will ask the admin's to lock this thread. i just don;t know what to say

Re: I've been asked a really odd question
 

Umm.. im thinking to say something along the lines of "Sorry but no".

For me, having a kid with a girl... id definantly want her to be Straight.. and trust me she would be a MAJOR part of my life, im thinking you should suggest that she Addopt a Kid, or say no.

But you have to say it really nicely.

Re: I've been asked a really odd question
 

i would say no, the reason being that if you have a child, what effect will that have on a relationship that you have with some girl in the future?. How many girls are going to want to have a relationship with a guy who has fathered a child for a lesbian, not that im anti homosexual ok. you might think that it could be kept secret, but that would be difficult and cause problems later if you end up getting married someday.

Re: I've been asked a really odd question
 

RUN. Run far and fast from that chick. She sounds like she has mental issues.

Re: I've been asked a really odd question
 

:clap: :rofl: nice one.


i'd say no. it's a weird idea and i think if she REALLY wants this kid she should go to the local sperm bank and get some baby jelly.


plus, if she is a lesbian... she prolly wouldnt want you to impregnate her anyway.

Re: I've been asked a really odd question
 

NOOOO!

Say no. And if she goes beserk, just run, and keep running as long as you have breathe in your lungs.

Does that answer your question?

Re: I've been asked a really odd question
 

Tell her yes and then pull out at the last second.
:lolpoint:

Re: I've been asked a really odd question
 

You're horrible.

In a nice way.

Re: I've been asked a really odd question
 

Hmm, I'd do it. You are helping out your friend. But I don't think you should take the advice of anyone on this board. Think about it yourself and talk it out with both of the moms to be. Think about the best and worst case scenarios.

Re: I've been asked a really odd question
 

Yeah, I think thats the best advise, just talk to each other about it :)