I think that you should 'donate' your sperm to her, but only if you are able to get a contract ensuring things like no forcing of child support, but it could and probabloy would affect your relationship. I would advise against having the kid call you dad though, it'd be confusing. Or adopt, don't contribute to overpopulation
My best friend, "sarah" is a lesbian. and she was has always gone on about she wants to have a baby. so, me and her were hanging out, and she asked me if I would be the father! i was like totally blown away, it just came olut of no wheres and totally caught me off gaurd. she said obviously she's let me be part of the kids life, and obviously would let the kid call me dad, dispite the fact she does have a girlfriend.
i don't know what to say. sarah is my besat friend, and has been for years. i really want to have kids myself, but not this early in life, i am only 21, although the girls will have no problem raising kid without any help from me, they both have very high paying jobs.
i to can support the kid myself. but this is not a question that everyone is asked.
i could really use someones advice here. and i do not want this to turn into a thread about how homosexuals should not be allowed to have kids or anytihng like that, or i will ask the admin's to lock this thread. i just don;t know what to say
Considering that this here forum is filled with some strange examples of humanity, I would say you are asking in the wrong place.
Well, this is an odd question. Really, really strange. I do not think that anyone here is fully qualified to answer this for you. You need to sit down with your family and talk about it, and with your best friend and her girlfriend to get their views.
Well if you create the kid, you will have an obligation to ensure his/her welfare.
It depends on YOUR morals. Do you think Sarah will be a good mom? Will she be able to provide for the child? What does she expect you to do reguarding the child? F*ck her and leave?
She may also at some point draw you in. If shes having trouble she may be mad at you for not helping out. Find out exactly what she expects.
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never make decision like that so young, remember who is most important to you, yourself, your number one so make major decisions on what will benefit you, things drasticly change in life, and having a kid doesn't change, unless your pushed over the edge while holding a pillow.
I say go for it. It's no more fucked up than anybody else's life, and besides, at least you know your chilkd will be raised in a good home and have access to him or her whenever you like.
It's the end of the world as we know it.... It's the end of the world as we know it... It's the end of the world as we know it And I feel fine.
Do what you want. Just realise the emotional consequences, and possibly the involvement in the kid and two mothers lives might not be what you want.
My best advice would be to donate your sperm. Like anonymous except it isn't anonymous. Don't go through the actual act of sex with her. That could ruin your relationship.
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