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Re: I've been asked a really odd question

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Originally Posted by Mr. Matt

I don't think her bank manager would be quite as understanding as her friend, though... :p

Most bank managers make a living out of fucking people over, I don't think he'd have any objection to doing it once more.

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there are many many children that need homes, so i'd tell her no adopt one

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There have been some real tards posting in this thread, but then there has been some really good advice. I say adopt, or donate sperm. Just becareful and look into how the kid would be growing up. The only problem is, things can change dramatically as the child does grow.

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Originally Posted by Dragokatzov

My best friend, "sarah" is a lesbian. and she was has always gone on about she wants to have a baby. so, me and her were hanging out, and she asked me if I would be the father! i was like totally blown away, it just came olut of no wheres and totally caught me off gaurd. she said obviously she's let me be part of the kids life, and obviously would let the kid call me dad, dispite the fact she does have a girlfriend.
i don't know what to say. sarah is my besat friend, and has been for years. i really want to have kids myself, but not this early in life, i am only 21, although the girls will have no problem raising kid without any help from me, they both have very high paying jobs.
i to can support the kid myself. but this is not a question that everyone is asked.
i could really use someones advice here. and i do not want this to turn into a thread about how homosexuals should not be allowed to have kids or anytihng like that, or i will ask the admin's to lock this thread. i just don;t know what to say

I would say no! I have some really good female friends (not lesbians... but that hardly matters)... If they asked me to donate sperm for a child and I agreed, it would add something to the friendship that I would be unable to foresee the consequences of. We're not talking about friends buying a house together... We're talking about a lifelong obligation. What if you drift apart? friends are known to do this from time to time! Not nescesseraly out of bed will... but due to you both choosing different paths in life. I've had what I considered "life long friends drift away like that! Some day we were only able to talk about the weather. People choose to stay friends out of accordance... Having a child adds obligation to that equation.

Re: I've been asked a really odd question

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Originally Posted by Nemmerle

Most bank managers make a living out of fucking people over, I don't think he'd have any objection to doing it once more.

Touché ;)

Re: I've been asked a really odd question

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Originally Posted by portugezsausage

if she's hot, do her. If she's not that hot, then politely say no

:rollseyes: :vikki: You still have a lot to learn

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I couldn't do it. I would not want MY kid being raised by lesbians.

It's only half yours ;). I personally wouldn't have any more problems with a same sex couple raiding "my" child then a different sex couple. If it would be a man/female couple asking me for help i would just as honoured but also politly say no (because it would have a huge impact on the relationship with the couple i'm, and not for the better i'm afraid).

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Im going to have to go with the trend here and say no.

Whilst it would indeed be a noble gesture, would the two of you ever be able to look at each other in the same way? Your relationship would take a real hit, and you could end up feeling as if youre being used.

I'd say to politely decline, but help her find alternatives.

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If you do decide to go through with it make SURE you get a lawyer and a contract stating you have no legal monetary obligations for the kid, or her.
If you can mentally deal with having a gay couple , or anyone but yourself for that matter rasing your kid that you might have no part of go for it.
Also if you want visitation rights get that in writing.

I would run away. Fast.

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i would say no because having a kid isnt something small that u can just do.. its a commitment and u should be involved in the kids life that u created

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Ok serious question.

If you get into a fight and dont talk, dont you have to pay child support as the father? tell her to go to the sperm bank man.

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I couldn't do it. I would not want MY kid being raised by lesbians.

To be blunt... screw yourself. I'll tell you guys that I myself was raised by two women and seem to fit into society nicely.