Sex before marriage
 

hmmm.
come on, unless you get married before you are 20...

i have lasted with 2nd base.
but i know "sex before marriage"
has lost to youth. if you know what i mean.
girls are just too good looking now :)
and those skirts keep getting shorter ^^

what are your thoughts?

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If you even think about a girl sexually their is a 58.44 percent chance she will get pregnant. If you touch her skin to skin the chance goes up to 69.34 percent. If you kiss her their is a 93 percent chance she will get pregnant. And if you have sex before marriage she will have a troll and you will get aids. Ive seen it a million times and it's not pretty. Oh you can also get pregnant from the following. Voting Democrat, skipping church, swearing, masturbation, disrespecting your parents. If guys do any of this stuff their sister will get pregnant and they will get a disease.

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Wasn't there just a thread about this called Teens and Sex?

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Im new, and i didnt see it on the first page of threads. ;)
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and also, you cant forget, girls get pregnant off toilet seats :D
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AND bugger all kids from teen parents being disabled or having something unusual about them.
my neice ANGEL, is 4, my sister got pregnant at 15.
ANGEL is perfect :p

she takes charge at her kindergarten (shows social skills)
and she already played *catch and kiss* shows some tiny boys thinks shes good looking ^^
and she *wipes her own ass* :nodding:

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You can't get pregnant from toilet seats dumbass. Are you stupid or something?

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Please do not flame in the pub, that's the reason the melee was created.

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Spin89, when someone is told not to flame, that applies to everyone, not just to person being asked. I suggest you be a bit more respectful of others if you wish to stay on these forums.

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I wasnt flaming I was just joking.

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ummm
first that is all i could say,
but i thought i might add "OK".

ekips post was purely flame.
therefore, i would have thought it would have been deleted straight away.


you delete my post, but leave his.... :/
that puts me off this forum.
so theres a thing how if i am new, i must be *NEWBIE*?

ok. i wont flame

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i didnt see a smily, or j/k

:uhm:

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I dont use smileys because I think they are lame.



Oh, I forgot you can get pregnant from flaming too.

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hmm.

i shoulda made that the thread name :D
ways to get pregnant
:naughty:

you can get pregnant from sitting too close to the TV ^^

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Stop now. Ekips, people can't tell when others are joking online. People may take offense at being called a "dumbass" regardless if it were a joke or not. Don't do it.

Spin89, if someone flames you, be the bigger person and ignore them. If you have an issue with a post or a person, either report the post or contact a moderator. The reason why the other two posts were deleted is because two staff members have asked both of you to stop and get back on topic which did not happen.

Now, can we all please drop this and get back in topic? No more warnings.

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can you agree that you like to disagree? :)

you can get pregnant from holding the same face when the wind blows.

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me and my girl experiment.
touchy feely. :naughty:

and we don't have need for contraceptives...
*as of yet. :nodding:

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YEAH! *high fives*



as to the question...sure, nothing wrong as long as you dont bang anything that moves and keep it resonsible.

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Sex before marriage?
I test drive a car before buying it so...

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i think if u use protecion its ok

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drive it until you burn up the engine. :lol:

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there was a big thread about pre marital sex wasn't there?

Pre marital sex leads...to premarital problems.

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I have to disagree.
Not having sex before leads to sexual issues later on.
Bad sex in a relationship leads to divorce.
For the most part.

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Pre-marital sex is very important. First off, you DO NOT want to go into a marriage being the only virgin in the marriage. Chances are your boyfriend or girlfriend is not going to be a virgin. Sexual activity among teens now is a lot higher. All my friends have had sex. I have had sex. Many girls I know have had sex. Many more girls want to have sex. When teachers tell you, "Oh, don't give in to peer pressure," it isn't really peer pressure. The simple fact is that most people WANT to have sex.

You need the experience. I don't think I would like knowing that the person I was marrying wasn't a virgin and I was.

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I laugh each and everytime I hear people (kids) say the having sex for the first time is something special.
It's a cluster fuk.
An experienced man having sex with a virgin is horrible. We want experienced, open minded women with an imagination.
Not OW OW OW it hurts OW OW OW get it out get it out it's too big.
Have I said too much..
:beer:

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No, people need to know this stuff. Parents aren't doing a good job teaching kids about sex. My dad always told me that whatever I choose to do sexually with my life is my business and if I want to have lots of sex to use a condom. That is it, end of the sex discussion with the parent(s).

The experience of sex, especially the first time isn't the best. My first time was pretty decent, but my girlfriend wasn't a virgin and she already had experience. So I didn't know what to do, it was kind of awkward.

You want that experience in a relationship. Many relationships fail because one partner doesn't want to have sex and the other one does. Either they are too shy or are morally against it or something.

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I have posted this numerous times and this is what is correct

%99 of all teenagers act like idiots and get them selves into serious trouble. Then they go out and do it and some of them get pregant. Then they are too lazy to carry the baby so they just get an abortion. Letting teens do as they please leads to the destruction of human life and/or the messing up of the partners' lives. I am perfacty fine with it between adult since they usually make the right decisions.

Yes, they need to tell them that it is to be reserved for marriage.

If you need it to keep the relationship going then that is not a good relationship.

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Pethegreat, just for my knowledge so I can understand what I am dealing with, how old are you?

Your opinion isn't correct. Stop telling us it is. We all have different opinions, and everyone thinks there opinion is correct. But it is merely opinion, not fact, so don't recite your opinion as if it is fact.

Yeah it isn't irresponsible to have sex. Sex is a part of life, and if we have the means to prevent pregnancy, then we should use those means. And if we have even more ways to get rid of babies, I see no reason why we shouldn't use those means.

Parents need to tell kids to be responsible and use protection because unlike you, many teenagers aren't going to listen to their parents and wait. It isn't that we are falling into peer-pressure, it is just that we don't want to wait.

You are wrong about the relationship. Sex is a vital part in a relationship, and a majority of couples need sex to keep their relationship alive. If a partner is getting a lack of sex, the other partner will go out and seek someone else to fulfill her sexual needs. It is a fact in relationships. Relationships without sex fail. More so as adults but with many teens as well.

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Meh, if you want to screw around before getting hooked there's no reason why you shouldn't. Birth control is excellent nowadays so there's nothing against it on that front, the only bad side would be STDs and unless you sleep with complete sluts/are a slut the chances of that aren't high.

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Pete, how many relationships have you been in?
How many times have you had sex?
Where are you getting this advice from?
meaning no offence here but you are hardly qualified to give relationship advice.
You are a die hard Christian, and I beleieve you base everything that you say on religion so I really have to dismiss it, sorry man.

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someone please enlighten me on the child support laws of the United States.

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Yes...You have said too much...Now get back in your cage!!

As for the rest of you...Stop with the silly pregnancy talk. The Stork brings all the babies.

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No it isn't. The religious way is dead. Do you really think that you should stay a virgin until you're 26+ and the only pleasure you get is from your hand? I sure as hell don't. I am in a good relationship right now and whenever we choose then that time will come. If you are responsible about it and use protection etc. then there is NO harm done. If you ever do get into a relationship (which by the way I'm increasingly thinking won't happen at your rate) you'll be waiting at least 2 years before you get married, barring some other decision. While you're in this relationship for 2 years, you won't once even touch her? She will definately feel frustrated because you won't be man enough to take charge.


It's called taking charge and going to the next step. You can't be afraid of making a move your whole life.

Pethegreat, you need to take that sort of stuff into consideration. I'm pretty sure most of the women out there are not willing to wait 28 years before they have sex.

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Theres nothing wrong with sex before marriage only people who will tell you other wise are crazy religious fanatics who are trying to control your life.

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The Father has to pay a percentage of his income to the wife, its automatically taken out of his pay. But most of them avoid it and usually abort the baby.

and so is the pergancy rate and abortion rate.

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Who knows? some days he seems 3, some he seems 20, some 13.

Anyway, i think sex is okay before marriage, entirely. I don't know why the religious portion of America is so anti-sex before marriage. For one, it isn't because they are too young to be doing it or whatever, its just that people are stupid, really stupid. If you want to have sex you use a condom, that is all. Don't wait until marriage, because it is stupid, and could alone wreck a marriage within the first week.

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Oh yes the mystique of me:p

I would be fine with people doing it if they were responsibe for their actions, but way too many of them are not though, showing why I take my stance on this. They don't do the sensibe things like use birth control to avoid STD's. Also if you get pregant, just carry the baby then put it up for adoption, it is cheaper and won't mess up your insides. If you don't want to be responsibe for what you do with your GF then simply pratice asbtince.

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Birth control doesn't stop STD's, Pete. (unles you meant condoms)

And when it comes to abortion/adoption it's the womans/couples decision, not yours, mine or the goverments.
Do not judge someones actions in those circumstances, you have no idea what it is like to be in that situation. When you grow up you will understand, hopefully ;)
You must understand this.

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ok.
thats it. :moon:
:)

my opinion is correct. :smokin:

without sex.
you dont have a relationship.

:cool:

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Uh . . . ok . . . no

Premarital sex is not the way to go, plain and simple. However, I see more and more of the world going down the crapper. Last year we had a priest come to our school health class telling us how premarital sex, living together, and gay relations were perfectly alright. Myself and a friend of mine (a diehard catholic) just sat there in awe that somwhere, someone felt the need to give this man a license to preach . . . .

Sexual relations are ment to be something of value and upmost importance shared between a man and woman who love each other so much that they have decided to spend the rest of their lives together in a special unequaled intimacy. And yes, intimacy has more than simply any physical connotations that go with it, it's an emotional closeness, being one with your significant other, a vow, a bond that today's youth does not seem to understand. Giving yourself physically is something you should do to the person you have given yourself to spiritually, emotionally, and mentally; being in wedlock. The person with whom you wish to spend enternity with, and raise a family (yah, sexual relations can do that too, it's not just a pleasure experience :rolleyes: )

I find that many people here [here here - Iowa - not here forums here] understand any moral complications that come along with it. I was speaking on a bus ride to a soccer match with several of my friends. Many thought that it was fine to give yourself physically out of wedlock, but one said, "No, I think it's wrong to have sex before merriage." I questioned him on it, "you just told us yesterday that you were being intimate" I hate it when people use that word in that context "with your girlfriend." He told us, "I believe it's wrong, but I do it anyway." People need to listen to their morality for a change :cort:

And if you think that just because I've never been in a relatinship that I have no basis to have an opinion on this, ask yourself how I got that niece of mine . . . from a sister as of yet unmarried . . . .

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Steakboy, everything you wrote is false.
Am I correct to say you have never had a girlfriend or have had sex yet?
What you wrote is not "plain and simple" and I am sure you will learn this soon.
Write back when you do;)
You are clueless about this subject, no offense please.
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Steakboy, most likely you will be in a world of heartbreak as an adult. I hope you find the partner you describe, but your choices in women are severely limited.

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my girl is the kind of *stereotypical middle school girl*
Haha

she is 16, and is a horny nympho :P


"i like to move it move it":nodding:

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No, they are meant to be as wide spread as possible. That is the way humans are the way they've evolved. There's no meant to be for mariage or any of that because nothing has dictated it to us. It is meant to be nothing more or less than fucking, and what you do with that, when you do it and with who is entirely fine (as long as it's not rape.)

I don't think that a whore is very close emotionaly to her customer. It's not an emotional closeness or any of this other crap you speak about, it by itself is just sex.

I'll do as I see fit.

Second hand information can only tell you so much. I think that unless you've experienced it yourself you can't really base your criticism on anything substantial.

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Wrong. Sexual relations are ment to happen as often as possible to continue the species. Thats the natural reason.

The human civilized reason is to be something of value and utmost importance between a man and a woman who...etc etc.

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damn im thinkin steakboy here is just jealos that he cant get any poon tang

and you no that would suck too but im thinking here that once you do it man you will feel wholly differently about sex. sex is not evil and shit dont listen to that shit dude just do what you want

girls like guys who party too if you want to get laid drink lots of beer trust me that shit works and dont drink that miller shit because miller fucking sucks. bud light if you are going to drink american brands but stick with corona and henken whatever the fuck you spell that and you will due fine. trust me. if you listen to anything i have told you it is that miller is for fucking losers. that shit is nasty, eeven worse that that tqaquilla shit. my dad made me drink taquilla once and that was klike the nastiest piss brand in the world. you have to be fuckin drunk as hell to drink tequilla or taquilla whatever you call it because it is like stickin piss inm your mouth trust me.
seriously man dont listen to anyone here have sex drink fuckin party smoke some shit smoke weed do drugs for all anyone cares no one will judge u man life is too short to sit around and be a little bitch

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go to bed X-C, you're wasted.
:beer:

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And yet his words do have some truth in them. :agreed
And Karma for being able to post an understandable and reasonable sentence while wasted. ;)

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OKay... people have there own opinions thats fine u cant yell at sum1 for stateing there own opinion There is no ture opinion or a false one its just an opinion there fore it cannot be juged as a right or worng answer ... yes as a catholic ur raised not to have sex until ur married now thats fine ... but what if ur in love with someone and ur not married.. whats that .. be there are problums with that .. more STDs get passed areound in 6 months then from 1980 to 1995 ... and there is nothing u can do to stop STDs except for not having sex.. that goes into consideration.. do u wanna get a chance of getting STDs? then a condom is only 70% certin that you wont get her pregant ... then a birth control is only 99% ... so ... i dont know if this helps the conversation any.. i hope it dose .. and to agree with X-C i am a kid and my parents didnt tell me anything about sex... i learnd it all on my own.. and there where like 10 pregnece at my school last year.. and 1 girl it was her second chil at like 17 .. so ..
hoped this helps any.. i would say .. before u go out and screw ur brains out.. learn about ur partner... make sure she/he is clean

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Oh yea he is. I was talkin with Aero earlier and he was talkin to X-C and was trashed.