Re: Sex before marriage
 

someone please enlighten me on the child support laws of the United States.

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Yes...You have said too much...Now get back in your cage!!

As for the rest of you...Stop with the silly pregnancy talk. The Stork brings all the babies.

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No it isn't. The religious way is dead. Do you really think that you should stay a virgin until you're 26+ and the only pleasure you get is from your hand? I sure as hell don't. I am in a good relationship right now and whenever we choose then that time will come. If you are responsible about it and use protection etc. then there is NO harm done. If you ever do get into a relationship (which by the way I'm increasingly thinking won't happen at your rate) you'll be waiting at least 2 years before you get married, barring some other decision. While you're in this relationship for 2 years, you won't once even touch her? She will definately feel frustrated because you won't be man enough to take charge.


It's called taking charge and going to the next step. You can't be afraid of making a move your whole life.

Pethegreat, you need to take that sort of stuff into consideration. I'm pretty sure most of the women out there are not willing to wait 28 years before they have sex.

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Theres nothing wrong with sex before marriage only people who will tell you other wise are crazy religious fanatics who are trying to control your life.

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The Father has to pay a percentage of his income to the wife, its automatically taken out of his pay. But most of them avoid it and usually abort the baby.

and so is the pergancy rate and abortion rate.

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Who knows? some days he seems 3, some he seems 20, some 13.

Anyway, i think sex is okay before marriage, entirely. I don't know why the religious portion of America is so anti-sex before marriage. For one, it isn't because they are too young to be doing it or whatever, its just that people are stupid, really stupid. If you want to have sex you use a condom, that is all. Don't wait until marriage, because it is stupid, and could alone wreck a marriage within the first week.

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Oh yes the mystique of me:p

I would be fine with people doing it if they were responsibe for their actions, but way too many of them are not though, showing why I take my stance on this. They don't do the sensibe things like use birth control to avoid STD's. Also if you get pregant, just carry the baby then put it up for adoption, it is cheaper and won't mess up your insides. If you don't want to be responsibe for what you do with your GF then simply pratice asbtince.

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Birth control doesn't stop STD's, Pete. (unles you meant condoms)

And when it comes to abortion/adoption it's the womans/couples decision, not yours, mine or the goverments.
Do not judge someones actions in those circumstances, you have no idea what it is like to be in that situation. When you grow up you will understand, hopefully ;)
You must understand this.

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ok.
thats it. :moon:
:)

my opinion is correct. :smokin:

without sex.
you dont have a relationship.

:cool:

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Uh . . . ok . . . no

Premarital sex is not the way to go, plain and simple. However, I see more and more of the world going down the crapper. Last year we had a priest come to our school health class telling us how premarital sex, living together, and gay relations were perfectly alright. Myself and a friend of mine (a diehard catholic) just sat there in awe that somwhere, someone felt the need to give this man a license to preach . . . .

Sexual relations are ment to be something of value and upmost importance shared between a man and woman who love each other so much that they have decided to spend the rest of their lives together in a special unequaled intimacy. And yes, intimacy has more than simply any physical connotations that go with it, it's an emotional closeness, being one with your significant other, a vow, a bond that today's youth does not seem to understand. Giving yourself physically is something you should do to the person you have given yourself to spiritually, emotionally, and mentally; being in wedlock. The person with whom you wish to spend enternity with, and raise a family (yah, sexual relations can do that too, it's not just a pleasure experience :rolleyes: )

I find that many people here [here here - Iowa - not here forums here] understand any moral complications that come along with it. I was speaking on a bus ride to a soccer match with several of my friends. Many thought that it was fine to give yourself physically out of wedlock, but one said, "No, I think it's wrong to have sex before merriage." I questioned him on it, "you just told us yesterday that you were being intimate" I hate it when people use that word in that context "with your girlfriend." He told us, "I believe it's wrong, but I do it anyway." People need to listen to their morality for a change :cort:

And if you think that just because I've never been in a relatinship that I have no basis to have an opinion on this, ask yourself how I got that niece of mine . . . from a sister as of yet unmarried . . . .