Re: Sex before marriage
 

Re: Sex before marriage
 

there was a big thread about pre marital sex wasn't there?

Pre marital sex leads...to premarital problems.

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I have to disagree.
Not having sex before leads to sexual issues later on.
Bad sex in a relationship leads to divorce.
For the most part.

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Pre-marital sex is very important. First off, you DO NOT want to go into a marriage being the only virgin in the marriage. Chances are your boyfriend or girlfriend is not going to be a virgin. Sexual activity among teens now is a lot higher. All my friends have had sex. I have had sex. Many girls I know have had sex. Many more girls want to have sex. When teachers tell you, "Oh, don't give in to peer pressure," it isn't really peer pressure. The simple fact is that most people WANT to have sex.

You need the experience. I don't think I would like knowing that the person I was marrying wasn't a virgin and I was.

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I laugh each and everytime I hear people (kids) say the having sex for the first time is something special.
It's a cluster fuk.
An experienced man having sex with a virgin is horrible. We want experienced, open minded women with an imagination.
Not OW OW OW it hurts OW OW OW get it out get it out it's too big.
Have I said too much..
:beer:

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No, people need to know this stuff. Parents aren't doing a good job teaching kids about sex. My dad always told me that whatever I choose to do sexually with my life is my business and if I want to have lots of sex to use a condom. That is it, end of the sex discussion with the parent(s).

The experience of sex, especially the first time isn't the best. My first time was pretty decent, but my girlfriend wasn't a virgin and she already had experience. So I didn't know what to do, it was kind of awkward.

You want that experience in a relationship. Many relationships fail because one partner doesn't want to have sex and the other one does. Either they are too shy or are morally against it or something.

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I have posted this numerous times and this is what is correct

%99 of all teenagers act like idiots and get them selves into serious trouble. Then they go out and do it and some of them get pregant. Then they are too lazy to carry the baby so they just get an abortion. Letting teens do as they please leads to the destruction of human life and/or the messing up of the partners' lives. I am perfacty fine with it between adult since they usually make the right decisions.

Yes, they need to tell them that it is to be reserved for marriage.

If you need it to keep the relationship going then that is not a good relationship.

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Pethegreat, just for my knowledge so I can understand what I am dealing with, how old are you?

Your opinion isn't correct. Stop telling us it is. We all have different opinions, and everyone thinks there opinion is correct. But it is merely opinion, not fact, so don't recite your opinion as if it is fact.

Yeah it isn't irresponsible to have sex. Sex is a part of life, and if we have the means to prevent pregnancy, then we should use those means. And if we have even more ways to get rid of babies, I see no reason why we shouldn't use those means.

Parents need to tell kids to be responsible and use protection because unlike you, many teenagers aren't going to listen to their parents and wait. It isn't that we are falling into peer-pressure, it is just that we don't want to wait.

You are wrong about the relationship. Sex is a vital part in a relationship, and a majority of couples need sex to keep their relationship alive. If a partner is getting a lack of sex, the other partner will go out and seek someone else to fulfill her sexual needs. It is a fact in relationships. Relationships without sex fail. More so as adults but with many teens as well.

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Meh, if you want to screw around before getting hooked there's no reason why you shouldn't. Birth control is excellent nowadays so there's nothing against it on that front, the only bad side would be STDs and unless you sleep with complete sluts/are a slut the chances of that aren't high.

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Pete, how many relationships have you been in?
How many times have you had sex?
Where are you getting this advice from?
meaning no offence here but you are hardly qualified to give relationship advice.
You are a die hard Christian, and I beleieve you base everything that you say on religion so I really have to dismiss it, sorry man.