2206688

Need some help!

July 30th, 2005 08:38 AM

Okay guys, well at the end of the school year, me and my best friend had a stupid argument, and we haven't talked for the past month and a half.
So Monday was her birthday, and ofcourse I confronted her and told her Happy Birthday and hugged her. She said that her party was on Saturday (today) at 5 P.M. So what I was wondering was if you guys think I should go or not, because honestly, I don't know if I should go. It seemed like she just invited me out of guilt for me confronting her, but I don't know.

Any help would be greatly appreciated.

2206706

Re: Need some help!

July 30th, 2005 08:46 AM

ofcourse you should go. go, give her a gift, and try to talk it out.

2206761

Re: Need some help!

July 30th, 2005 09:06 AM

Go but don't spoil her birthday by trying to sort it out, just be friend and forget about it, or talk about it at a latter time if you simply must have an end to it.

2206782

Re: Need some help!

July 30th, 2005 09:16 AM

I would say go, but let her come to you, bring her a gift, and just let her know you are sorry for whatever happened.

Don't let Silly arguments ruin friendships.

Good luck.

2206787

Re: Need some help!

July 30th, 2005 09:17 AM

2206811

Re: Need some help!

July 30th, 2005 09:25 AM

Tell me about it...having to be the resident therapist must suck.

Anyway, i agree with Nemmerle, go to it, but let her come to you, be there as if nothing happened but don't act like nothing happened, be there to support her but don't mention it. Things will blow over, eventually.

2206874

Re: Need some help!

July 30th, 2005 09:47 AM

One incident does not decide the outcome of a relationship. The way it is handled does. Don't let it get in the way of what is happening now.

2206893

Re: Need some help!

July 30th, 2005 09:53 AM

I don't think I could say it better myself, Good posting, Ensign.

2206894

Re: Need some help!

July 30th, 2005 09:54 AM

Yea, give her a gift. Then make-up sex!

Mack

2207419

Re: Need some help!

July 30th, 2005 01:50 PM

Hey Mack, do you ever have any idea whats going on?

As for going, go for it, be a friend, bring her a gift and enjoy the party, but dont bring up your argument, thats a killer. Let it work out by itself.