Need some help!
 

Okay guys, well at the end of the school year, me and my best friend had a stupid argument, and we haven't talked for the past month and a half.
So Monday was her birthday, and ofcourse I confronted her and told her Happy Birthday and hugged her. She said that her party was on Saturday (today) at 5 P.M. So what I was wondering was if you guys think I should go or not, because honestly, I don't know if I should go. It seemed like she just invited me out of guilt for me confronting her, but I don't know.

Any help would be greatly appreciated.

Re: Need some help!
 

ofcourse you should go. go, give her a gift, and try to talk it out.

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Go but don't spoil her birthday by trying to sort it out, just be friend and forget about it, or talk about it at a latter time if you simply must have an end to it.

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I would say go, but let her come to you, bring her a gift, and just let her know you are sorry for whatever happened.

Don't let Silly arguments ruin friendships.

Good luck. :)

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Re: Need some help!
 

Tell me about it...having to be the resident therapist must suck.

Anyway, i agree with Nemmerle, go to it, but let her come to you, be there as if nothing happened but don't act like nothing happened, be there to support her but don't mention it. Things will blow over, eventually.

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One incident does not decide the outcome of a relationship. The way it is handled does. Don't let it get in the way of what is happening now.

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I don't think I could say it better myself, Good posting, Ensign.

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Yea, give her a gift. Then make-up sex!

Mack

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Hey Mack, do you ever have any idea whats going on?

As for going, go for it, be a friend, bring her a gift and enjoy the party, but dont bring up your argument, thats a killer. Let it work out by itself.

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How wrong you are.
Sometimes that one incident is always brought up when other incidents happen ;) salt meet wound. repeat.
But that is usually with adult relationships.

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Thanks guys, I did end up going. I brought her an "adorable" huge teddy bear (thats what she said anyways :D.) We're not 100% yet, but we're getting there, slowly. I know in the end we'll be back to normal, but for now, I'm gonna give her her room to breath, I'm not gonna breath down her neck about this. When she's ready to talk about this, I know she'll confront me about it.

Thanks again guy, it was greatly appreciated. :)