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Eclipse9069 July 30th, 2005 08:38 AM

Need some help!
 
Okay guys, well at the end of the school year, me and my best friend had a stupid argument, and we haven't talked for the past month and a half.
So Monday was her birthday, and ofcourse I confronted her and told her Happy Birthday and hugged her. She said that her party was on Saturday (today) at 5 P.M. So what I was wondering was if you guys think I should go or not, because honestly, I don't know if I should go. It seemed like she just invited me out of guilt for me confronting her, but I don't know.

Any help would be greatly appreciated.

the1chaos July 30th, 2005 08:46 AM

Re: Need some help!
 
ofcourse you should go. go, give her a gift, and try to talk it out.

Nemmerle July 30th, 2005 09:06 AM

Re: Need some help!
 
Go but don't spoil her birthday by trying to sort it out, just be friend and forget about it, or talk about it at a latter time if you simply must have an end to it.

Lysdestic July 30th, 2005 09:16 AM

Re: Need some help!
 
I would say go, but let her come to you, bring her a gift, and just let her know you are sorry for whatever happened.

Don't let Silly arguments ruin friendships.

Good luck. :)

PropheticKarma July 30th, 2005 09:17 AM

Re: Need some help!
 
Go and let it be for now, If she needs the closure she'll be the one to bring it up then.
Otherwise it's her birthday let it pass and just see how things go.
Hope it all works out for you, I hate fighting with my friends! :(


Phoenix_22 July 30th, 2005 09:25 AM

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Quote:

Hope it all works out for you, I hate fighting with my friends! :(
Tell me about it...having to be the resident therapist must suck.

Anyway, i agree with Nemmerle, go to it, but let her come to you, be there as if nothing happened but don't act like nothing happened, be there to support her but don't mention it. Things will blow over, eventually.

Ensign Riles July 30th, 2005 09:47 AM

Re: Need some help!
 
One incident does not decide the outcome of a relationship. The way it is handled does. Don't let it get in the way of what is happening now.

Lysdestic July 30th, 2005 09:53 AM

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Quote:

One incident does not decide the outcome of a relationship. The way it is handled does. Don't let it get in the way of what is happening now.
I don't think I could say it better myself, Good posting, Ensign.

TheMack July 30th, 2005 09:54 AM

Re: Need some help!
 
Yea, give her a gift. Then make-up sex!

Mack

Rent_A_Cop July 30th, 2005 01:50 PM

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Hey Mack, do you ever have any idea whats going on?

As for going, go for it, be a friend, bring her a gift and enjoy the party, but dont bring up your argument, thats a killer. Let it work out by itself.


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