Flirting help.
 

Ok I like this girl and i dont know if she likes me in the goingout kinda like. So anyway i need help flirting any good tips would be nice. And please im not a ganster or whatever so dont give them kind of tips, im a redneck.

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What kind of girl is she? Outgoing, shy, popular, has dated lots of guys, etc. etc? In general I'd say try to hang out with her as friends first. Joke around and let her know you're a nice guy, give her a few compliments, but don't over do it either.

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Girls don't like "bad boys". Well that's not true... They do, but that's not the kind of guy you bring home for dinner. The key really is to just be yourself, though. If you make up some elaborate ploy to win her heart, you can't keep it up forever and she'll find out.

Besides, you're young. High school relationships are like cookies. Tasty, but they don't last very long usually http://forums.filefront.com/images/smilies/winkx.gif

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Well shes not the hottest girlin school but i would pick her over the hottest girl in school if i could pick. Shes got a great personality, Shes not shy but she is in some things, she hasnt dated meny guys seriously.
I started talking to her more than usual than before, she like to joke around and that kind of stuff. I just got that feeling like I love her but we never went out lol.

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Lol...high school romance. Yep, Inyri gives good advice - be yourself, because you want to end up with a girl that likes you for who you are. One of the keys to a successful relationship is really communicating with one another.

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I'm in the same boat, in a way. Girl seems to like you, smiles a lot, asks lots of questions, etc.
I try to just be myself, try to be nice, to drop a compliment here and there but to not seem stalker-like in your appreciation of her. I think too much of a fondness can appear to be creepy. :p

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Depends on the girl really. She may be more into the "subtle" kind where you just give her a few smiles from across the room, make eye contact a lot, or she may be the type who can respond more to the "physical messing around" type of flirting.

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:agreed
You need to figure that out first, that has gotten me before.

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Yes, above all things be yourself. And if you're quick witted and funny, be so! If your not, don't even try. :p

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Yeah, that's how it works. :rolleyes: What if you're the kind that women don't find attractive? Everybody acts weather they realize it or not. We all act. Some of female attraction even lies in acting and teasing. The worse advice ever made and that always seem to surface is "be yourself". Hog wash! The only way it can work in the long run is being yourself but doing so puts you at great risk of spend your life lonely if you're not lucky or the kind of guy naturally that women falls for.