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your in luck man cuz im a fellow redneck my self and yes i myself do know how to flirt with girls. 1st off do somthing simple with her like try to comfert her if she is having problems. thats mostly how i had gotten my gf. make sure you say hi to her every day to let her know you care about her. no need to go into long conversations just simple hi when you see her. always try to make her laugh but dont be to pervy or she might think your just to much for her. remember offer to help her out as much as posible and she will like you. :)

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Nah, what I'm saying is there's no point in pretending to be someone you're not to get a girl because you won't really enjoy it over a long period of time.
And exactly what do you mean by 'judging by your attitude they aren't in line with many other people I've witnessed'?

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Just shut up and be mysterious.

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Iv had many gf in my life lol 8 to be right lol. Way i got them was manly being there friend at first. 5 of them i didnt even like at first and once i got to know them i started liking them and so did they. just manly be there friend and be there when they need some one. dont be there every single day thoe cause then they would know you like them or just a stalker. if they really like you they will come to you lol. so just be your self and be there friend manly. dont push it like asking for there phone number when you first met them lol. just talk like you would talk to any of your friends.

also there may be people in here that say dont be your self well be your self. because you want them to like you for who you are not a fake. if they like you for a fake and get tired of being the fake and want to be your self most likely they will leave you. specialy if you get to involved with her. always be your self not a fake.

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^^^That's precisely what I just said. And by that I meant that you seemed to have this automatic negative attitude toward "young love" and I figured that maybe you'd had some bad experiences. I completely agree, faking a personality or lifestyle just to get a girl is one of the lamest (and shortest lasting) ways to get one.

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yeah just b yourself like my girlfrend lvoes em for who i am (sad sad girl) and i love her for that to u just gotta be who u r normally :smokin:

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Okay, this will get you any girl in the sack, I dono how it works for long term, I havent tried. BACK ENDED COMPLIMENTS! Dude, say things like, "My friends all think your fat, but I think they are wrong, I like a little junk in the trunk", do some obvious teasing, and dont be afraid to do light pushing and shoving. Like in the middle of walking down the street try and walk her into a pole hehe, and when she asks if you where gona make her hit is say, "mabey".
I swear it will work.

At the same time be yourself, and NEVER get involved in "controversial" conversations. Its dead that night.

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This is the cutest thing Ive ever seen! Takes me back.

I would say that the fact that you are shy yourself probably speaks volumes to how youll treat her, and who you are as a person.

Above all, be yourself. Ive put on an act before, cuz I knew it would get me the girl, and I felt dirty. Oh, I enjoyed the shit out of the time I spent with that gorgeous piece of.. Oh, back to topic. Yeah, dont do that man. Not if you want it to last.

If that doesnt work, give her lots of :beer: :beer: :beer:

And be SURE to compliment her. Girls love compliments, but be clever about it, things that you wouldnt think she would expect you to notice. You can bet anything about her that you like, like a piece of jewelry, or tiny tatoo above her left nipple, or maybe even just the way her hair sometimes falls into her eyes, she did that on purpose. Or if she didnt do it on purpose, she is well aware of that particular aspect of herself, and maybe even self-conscious about it (good for you, cuz you can reinforce her confidence, and make her feel better about it).

Ah, I wish I was still "playing the field" as they say. Girls are cool. The chase is half the fun you know.

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Dont do anything this guy says. Seriously, you can ignore all the other advice, and still have a much better chance with her if you completely ignore this guy.

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Somehow I doubt this is really the best way...