Oh, I know some people like that, and they smell bad.
I guess some advice is...don't smell bad.
Well i dont "smell" or am i in the lower class "poor". Anyway im gonna try somethings today. Thanks guys for the input you made me see a bit more. Hopfully she likes me as much as I like her.
If yo notice she looks at you, you should just stare at her til she sees you staring, then look away, I get this sometimes, and it seems to sorta work.
Oh, and if she (admin edit: lose the drug talk mmmk? Your not cool), be all like, hey, i have ten, wanna match at lunch? it works.
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I always have ben myself, i dont want to act differently then who i am. Guess thats why i never had a girlfriend or een a flirt either . All i can say is just chat a bitwith her, make some fun and work from there.
Yeah, exactly have a little fun. How much fun do you think it's going to be if you're always trying to be something you're not...
What? I really don't understand what you just said.
If you're saying that being a boyfriend requires faking intimacy with a girl, then obviously you've had some bad quality relationships. I try to be as honest and straightforward with friends and girlfriends as I can. I'm not exactly clear as to how your past relationships have gone down, but judging b your attitude they aren't in line with many other people I've witnessed.
^ Umm dude, Nemmerle said "How much fun do you think it's going to be if you're always trying to be something you're not..."
That means you're not going to have very much fun if you're trying to be someone you're not. "Being someone you're not" means trying to act like a person that you think the girl will fall for."
Does that make sense dude?
On topic: I think I dished out the compliments too much? I don't know, but I still kinda wonder where I went wrong. I haven't really had a girlfriend, as sad as it is, it's my reality. Maybe if I went to a regular high school I might be surrounded by a bunch of chicks that I could "go out with" or date. But I'm graduating soon, and honestly, I'm happy with the direction I took. It's not the end of the world if you don't have a girlfriend when you're in high school. You should be concentrating on school anyway. Good luck M1, cuz I know exactly what it's like to really like and care for a girl and she doesn't even know it...
Yeah, don't give out too many compliments, or ones that seem, I don't know, too intimate. Like you don't have to say, you look beautiful, more like you look nice, or pretty, especially if you don't know them well. Just try to get into the flow of a conversation if you can.
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^ Umm dude, Nemmerle said "How much fun do you think it's going to be if you're always trying to be something you're not..."
That means you're not going to have very much fun if you're trying to be someone you're not. "Being someone you're not" means trying to act like a person that you think the girl will fall for."
Does that make sense dude?
First of all, don't call me dude. I'm not a friend of yours. Second, I know what he was saying, and I adressed that in my post. Maybe you guys are all for the whole "fake to get liked" thing, but that's not how I roll. Honesty to yourself and her is key.
Oh, if you've reached the "next round" as Mr. Matt put it, think perhaps about doing something a bit more out there to make her feel special. I gave this girl I like flowers the other day and got her number and plans for the weekend.
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. All i can say is just chat a bitwith her, make some fun and work from there. 
I haven't really had a girlfriend, as sad as it is, it's my reality. 
Maybe if I went to a regular high school I might be surrounded by a bunch of chicks that I could "go out with" or date. But I'm graduating soon, and honestly, I'm happy with the direction I took. It's not the end of the world if you don't have a girlfriend when you're in high school. You should be concentrating on school anyway. 
Good luck M1, cuz I know exactly what it's like to really like and care for a girl and she doesn't even know it... 
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