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Re: Flirting help.

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Originally Posted by CopperHead

Yeah, that's how it works. :rolleyes: What if you're the kind that women don't find attractive? Everybody acts weather they realize it or not. We all act. Some of female attraction even lies in acting and teasing. The worse advice ever made and that always seem to surface is "be yourself". Hog wash! The only way it can work in the long run is being yourself but doing so puts you at great risk of spend your life lonely if you're not lucky or the kind of guy naturally that women falls for.

:agreed

Be yourself after you've got past the first few waypoints. The initiation stage is all about scoring points -- score enough, and you're through to the next round! Human mating rituals are the biggest farce on the face of the Earth. Even politics don't compare. 'Be yourself' is all fine and dandy if you're married; you're past the stupid rituals, then. But you never saw a peacock pull a bird ( :D ) just by lying around sleeping and watching sport on satellite TV, did you? No, you've got to spread your feathers and waggle your arse in their face -- or, something to that effect.

Of course, the 'be yourself' thing does apply to a certain extent. Don't tell her you're an astronaut who used to be a Formula 1 racing driver or something stupid like that.

Re: Flirting help.

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Originally Posted by CopperHead

Yeah, that's how it works. :rolleyes: What if you're the kind that women don't find attractive?

Then you're fucked. Or not, which would seem to be the problem.

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Originally Posted by CopperHead

Everybody acts weather they realize it or not. We all act. Some of female attraction even lies in acting and teasing. The worse advice ever made and that always seem to surface is "be yourself". Hog wash! The only way it can work in the long run is being yourself but doing so puts you at great risk of spend your life lonely if you're not lucky or the kind of guy naturally that women falls for.

And they wonder why there are so many divorces nowadays...
The thing is you're in school, you don't have to worry about whether you'll spend the rest of your life lonely at that stage, romance in school is all about having fun not sticking on the spit and pol. You won't enjoy pretending to be someone else for an extended amount of time, and he's just in school, there's no reason to be in it for anything other than enjoyment.

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Im sick of people saying its high school romance. I know many of you have been there done that. Us 15 - 17 year olds do get feelings you know! its called puberty!

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Originally Posted by Flodgy

Us 15 - 17 year olds do get feelings you know! its called puberty!

:rofl: :lolpoint: O_o Sorry but you've no idea how that organised itself in my head.
We know you've got feelings, the thing is in most cases you aren't going to be spending the rest of your life with this person, you've got too unstable a personality at that age for it to be really practical.

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I really need to consider what I say before I say it. Im a little slow tonight :lookaround:

And I do understand what you mean. but my older bro got his girlfriend in year 8 at the age of 14. He is now 22 and is still with her and they are engaged. strange absurb things to occur.

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Originally Posted by Nemmerle

Well of course, even I know that I'm not going to get married to my current girlfriend. That's just ignorant to think. But it never hurt to have a little fun while we still can, right? It's not as if it'd be a BAD idea to get intimate with someone you're not going to marry. Big deal.

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Yeah, exactly have a little fun. How much fun do you think it's going to be if you're always trying to be something you're not...

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Right, I don't know how I exactly entered this thread, but anyone want to clear up this phrase for me? See below.

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Originally Posted by M1GarandSharpShooter

im a redneck.

:confused:

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Originally Posted by Solid Snake

Right, I don't know how I exactly entered this thread, but anyone want to clear up this phrase for me? See below. :confused:

http://www.urbandictionary.com/defin...rm=Redneck&r=f :deal:

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As stated before, be yourself. You don't want her liking someone else. Ifshe dosen't like you, she's not your girl. ;)