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Nothing wrong with waiting.
Sometimes it just happens. 3 months, 3 days there is really no difference.
Being with someone for 3 months is nothing special, that is about the point where you are just starting to learn small things about eachother.
Sex for a man for the first time is nothing special, believe me.
Sex for a woman the first time IS, for the most part. A lot of women have a fantasy that they will spend the rest of their life with this person and blablablabla.

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(Not being Sexist) But that 'above' i can very much believe! :p as for it not being special for a man, would that not depend on the individual along with other stuff, like who and how (don't need to go into detail here) but it may feel different for different people (depending on how they do it etc)!

I also feel that three months would be a minimum for me, I doubt very much i would feel comfortable with sleeping / loosing my virginity to someone who i haven't been with for at least three months! and if by 'Sometimes it just happens' you mean that one day i will do it for the sake of it, i can asure you i wont (i have a lot of self-control) :D

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Sure it could be different, but most males doing it for the 1st time are mostly concentrating on the act itself more than the person they are with.
Don't get me wrong the 1st time between 2 people can be very special, it all depends on the situation and the people involved.
1st time for me was nothing special.
Oh and a tip: stay sober for your first time ;)

Not just the sake of it, but you could meet this awesome woman and things just click instantly and it happens (trust me). That doesn't mean it wasn't special because of short time, and it also doesn't mean she or you is a slut/whore. Sometimes these feelings are just to strong to resist.

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Thanks, I intend to. Not that i drink very much as it is but still!

:beer:

Well, i'll see how it goes, but if this 'awesome woman' appeared, i think i'd like to get to know her before jumping into bed! (Virgin or No-Virgin) - Thanks for the tips etc anyway :)

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Im a virgin. if you r 16 and not a virgin, im not sure if i should envy you, congratulate you or think that you will have 10 children with 10 wives in the future.

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ahahah. that made me chuckle.

congrats man. i hope (if its possible) you two get together or somethin. 5 hours! you pimp! (:p)

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Virgin. Damn proud of it. I don't understand how that makes me a pimp...

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I'm nearing 19 and haven't even been on a date, much less had sex.

There's a girl I see every Sunday that I enjoy talking to. I could eventually see myself dating her, but for now a friend is a good thing. No, I'm in no hurry to have sex.

Personal opinion; it's probably better if you wait... less possible complications that way.

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If you read my header (after the 'age' part) it says 18, where did you get 16 from? and i am a Virgin! Proud one at that, as for the rest of your comment, i don't see how that has any relation to me or anything i said! - maybe you were talking to someone else!? - if so, would have been an idea to Quote what they said!

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I'm near twenty and never had a girldfriend, nor a date let alone sex. I never even really kissed a girl (yes on the cheeks but further then that). :( The large cause of this is since i dont go out that much and am very shy. I cant approach a girl and if talked to (by a total stranger) i tend to "crawl back" (depensing who, about what, whatfor , the situation etc.).