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Trillian March 28th, 2005 02:27 AM

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OH GOD!! What's the big deal?? You don't feel any different, it doesn't change your life or who you are. It doesn't make you a slag/stud, this only thing that changes is your view on losing it.

You realise that it isn't a big deal, you realise it's just a bit of fun between two intimate people (whether it's a one night stand, with someone you've been with for a while etc...) after all, you're not doing it to re-produce.

I've noticed that you guys are all hung up about it. Don't be. Who cares whther your still a virgin or not - it doesn't matter.

What does matter is how you think about sex. It's nothing to get hung up over, nothing to be shy about, nothing to be ashamed of.

I'm also a little worried that some of you guys are too worried about people's perception of you if you did have sex. It seems to me that those of you in this position would be ashamed to have sex because people would know.

Who cares if people know that you have sex? If you didn't you'd be pretty android human beings.

I don't regret any of my past activities with men. I have enjoyed every minute, and I shall carry on enjoying it, and I don't care one bit what people think about it. Because it's normal.

Memorex March 28th, 2005 02:32 AM

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It's normal to have sex, but not at a particular age or with a silly reason... I don't want sex just because of the fun, but I want sex to show a girl that I love her... She's not a toy or something that I throw away after one time sex...

I don't mind what others do or won't do, I simply wait till I've met the right girl and than we could have sex, if I had sex with all the girls I already had, then man.... That doesn't work imo...

If you like sex, simply do it with someone, and I think you are right, it's your choice afterall :) But it's simply not my style...

Trillian March 28th, 2005 02:37 AM

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Oh bless! MRBlonde thinks that sex only belongs with love!

Hun, you have alot to learn. Just you wait until you hit 25 and you look back and realise that you've slept with at least 10 different women!

Memorex March 28th, 2005 02:41 AM

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Yea, I think it belongs to love... And it always belonged to love... And when I'm 25 I've got a family, with children... And that makes me happy, and I don't need sex at this age to do that...

AegenemmnoN March 28th, 2005 02:44 AM

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Quote:

Originally Posted by #Trinity#
Ha ha! I can totally believe that there are so many virgins who come to this site. You spend all this time here that you lose out on meeting the ladies and duping them into bed!


lol. strait forward and to the point. good girl! :D

DavetheFo March 28th, 2005 02:54 AM

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Originally Posted by #Trinity#
OH GOD!! What's the big deal??

I wasnt making a big deal of it. Just the people who lost it at 12 are usually idiots. Chavs the lot of them mostly.

Personally, I think sex should wait till a little older. 12 just seems way too young.

Elrond1982 March 28th, 2005 03:20 AM

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Well yesterday (Easter), I did my regular visiting I do every holiday. Except this time I went over a friend's today and they had some of their friends over as well. This girl, Kate, remembered me from back in high school several years back, though I didn't remember her. But we must have talked for five hours straight and by time I knew it, we headed back to my house and one thing led to another... It hasn't been two hours since we, uh, "did tha deed". I hate saying "did it" because it's just so clitche. But anyway, yeah, that was my first three times there tonight. But we couldn't sleep so she's sitting next to me here watching me type about it! I guess since she saw I was on Gaming Forums she thought I should say something about that! And she said for me to type that she is 'totally hot.' But she asked me to do it in a separate line, so here it is:

She's totally hot!!!! :rock: :rock:

:band:

Thankfully I'm on vacation right now for the next five days - I decided to take one of my annual vacations this week - and I had to decide a month before-hand when I would take the vacation - and thankfully I chose these two weeks to do that! Yay!

She goes to church too. I used to go to church like years ago, but I might start going again. ;) I'm glad she's not into drinking too much or anything. I like a good drink now and then, but I'm glad she's not into that pretty much at all! What a great night.

Well, about sex being a big deal - depends on the person and the person you are with and the time - everyone has a choice. And I've not regretted many choices I have made, so long as I get to choose what to do with my life, which we always have a choice. And my choice today was a great one!:)

Memorex March 28th, 2005 03:27 AM

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How old are you? (just curious...) ;)

Edit: and good luck with the girl :)

Elrond1982 March 28th, 2005 03:32 AM

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Oh I'm Elrond - I'm 12,000 years old - just kiddin'! ;) I'm actually 24. :) Kate's 23. Also, thanks for wishing me luck! Good luck to you as well! :)

Memorex March 28th, 2005 03:36 AM

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Well, that are some nice ages, I think :) Go out and get her! And thnx :)


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