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Desperately Need Advice

July 12th, 2004 09:20 PM

I'm in desperate need for some advice. My girlfriend had a huge fight with her mom and is freaking out. I don't know where she is and she stopped answering her phone except text messages. And she says she's leaving forever and never coming back

I've pleaded with her not to go and tried to calm her down, and told her I care about her, but I don't know what to do.

Any advice appreciated, I've tried everythiong I can think of or that her friends could think of

Please help!

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Re: Desperately Need Advice

July 12th, 2004 09:27 PM

If you have already tried to contact her and have looked for her in places where she normally hangs out....I don't know what else you could do. It's up to her at that point....

And don't 'kill' her mom....maybe just a beating followed by verbal abuse?

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Re: Desperately Need Advice

July 12th, 2004 09:33 PM

I think you should just let her calm down before approaching her. Any moves right now could be seen as aggresion. Give her a little time to think and get back into a rational state. However, you shouldn't hold anything from her mother, children are always a priorty in a parent's life, no matter what happens.

Pub would probably be a little more appropriate for this, though. People in the general forum might not take this seriously.

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Re: Desperately Need Advice

July 12th, 2004 10:15 PM

*Moved to The Pub*

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Re: Desperately Need Advice

July 12th, 2004 11:10 PM

Where was it?

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Re: Desperately Need Advice

V0rtex

July 12th, 2004 11:12 PM

General Yib-Yab (Off Topic). Tsk Tsk tsk, sleeping on the job are we Biggus?

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Re: Desperately Need Advice

July 12th, 2004 11:30 PM

Slap her.

Do something to get her to come to her senses.

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Re: Desperately Need Advice

July 13th, 2004 12:10 AM

I think it is kind of hard to slap her when you have no idea where the hell she is.

My advice to you sir is to gte some friends together, some who all know what she looks like (and more that don't but provide pictures for them), and get them all to search around where ever you live. If you find her, post back, but take it a step at a time, get her first, and then deal with the next step. Good luck.

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Re: Desperately Need Advice

July 13th, 2004 12:12 AM

Not on the job. But I slept, indeed. French time, I guess.

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Re: Desperately Need Advice

July 13th, 2004 12:24 AM

Yeah it was in General Yib-Yab (Off Topic) Biggus Dickus
Biggus Dickus does a fine job

Anyway I would find the girl and comfort her and let her know that you are there for her and she can get what happened off her chest.