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Sorry my bad! Didn't know u were a "lady"! ;)

Edit: uh oh...now sh0rd's gonna be doen my throat!!! :agreed

Why are you worried about Sh0rD?!? And how did you know?

Anyways i dont think that just because of him you shouldnt say something (as long as it isnt indecient :D )

What did you mean about "Sorry my bad! Didn't know u were a 'lady'!"

I think marriage is a good idea, you only get one shot, well actually you get about 4 or 6 but that's beside the point :D

P.S. Vikki, he knows 'cos it says in your sig, and besides Sh0rD is an admin, which is bad news for azzr :lol:

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Originally posted by Vikki
Why are you worried about Sh0rD?!? And how did you know?

Anyways i dont think that just because of him you shouldnt say something (as long as it isnt indecient :D )

What did you mean about "Sorry my bad! Didn't know u were a 'lady'!"

I know stuff around here! ;) Don't worry, sometimes i can be very complicated. :naughty:

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Originally posted by Private_Maestro
I think marriage is a good idea, you only get one shot, well actually you get about 4 or 6 but that's beside the point :D

P.S. Vikki, he knows 'cos it says in your sig, and besides Sh0rD is an admin, which is bad news for azzr :lol:

Marriage is about living with someone u care a LOT about and giving them space to grow and express their feelings with you. Don't ask me how i know this!

P.S. Private_maestro.... Sh0rD's an admin all right...but i have control on aafiles.com, generalsfiles.com, simsfiles.com, simsonlinefiles.com, half-lifefiles.com, halflife2files.com and hl2files.com. I'm also moderator of many of the forums on GF!
i.e. im FN|Staff AND GF|Mod. Sh0rD isn't bad news for me! I'm bad news for people!!! ;)

OOOHHH i see someone got his 'feathers all ruffled'. hehehe well i will watch out for you. (i got Sh0rD in my pocket :P)

and wow i feel stupid. I didnt even realize i had a sig any more. i know i have his homepage in my profile but... youre observant.

My father has been married 6 times - how the hell can you afford that?? They get half of everything you have, every time you divorce... no - not for me. too expensive. I will know when its the right time

@azzr:

you still didnt answer what "Sorry my bad! Didn't know u were a 'lady'!" ment.
And did you read up on a marraige manual? That last quote looks like it came directly out of one :)

and Sh0rD - if you are checking up on me, im just playing with you :P you know how i am...

I don't believe in marriage. I think that it is an antiquated way of binding two people together. A realtionship of such a degree should only be based on mutual love, respect, and understanding. There should be no need for a contract on these aspects of a relationship. The Happiness should be enough in it itself.
The only good thing about a marriage is the legal insurances that consider one part if the other passes away.
Anyway, this is just my opinion.

I had a guy tell me once (he cheated on me several times during the course of our relationship, and we were talking about why I wouldn never marry him - because i didnt trust him) dont worry, I would never cheat on you if we were married - its against the law. he also said that marraige was more important than having 'significant others' and would uphold his vows - I told him if he couldnt/wouldnt keep his manhood where it belonged when we were going out, than he couldnt when we were married.

WTF?!? as if i would marry a man who said that? so he wouldnt stop cheating because he 'loved' me, but because we were married and i could divorce him for all hes worth?!? i had nothing to say

Dreadnought_dk - you were right when you said "A realtionship of such a degree should only be based on mutual love, respect, and understanding. There should be no need for a contract on these aspects of a relationship. The Happiness should be enough in it itself" - if he was willing to marry me then, he should have been willing to fufill the vows of marraige WITHOUT having them stated in law. And he couldnt.

on the other hand, I do believe, honestly i do, that someone can cheat and if truely sorry a marraige can go on.

I dont know, maybe its a guy thing but i know that what he said didnt make me any more sure of the trust in the relationship.

That is why i feel marraiges are impossible - i would never find myself happy and relaxed in one.

Re: marriage - yes or no?

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Originally posted by nycgamer
Well, since we're not sodbusting on the ole plains anymore, why do men and women need to get married? In other words, women don't need men to lead full, productive lives and men don't need women to get along either. It's not like in the old Wild West when it was just too hard to survive alone and we needed to populate the new frontier with as many kids as possible. The human population is getting too overcrowded for this planet anyway and there are already too many kids without even a single parent - so tell me, why are people still getting married and having kids? Most people are too consumed with looks, money and popularity to care about anyone else and figure "why should I have to put up with someone else's bullsh*t when I don't really need them anyway? It's all about ME!", hence the high divorce rate. I'm not saying I have an opinion about marriage either way - I'm simply stating one side of the argument to see how other people feel about it.

Do you not think that most ppl do it for fun, and kids come along by accident?

And also, arent hippys the only ppl who NEVER EVER even think about marrying? Correct me if I am wrong(I probably am ;))

I hope people dont get married for fun - i think people screw around for fun but nothing in marriage seems thrilling. I think kids come along by accident - i am a testament to that.

i think hippies .. man i dont know what i think about them, but i wouldnt be surprised if that was true