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Stratopwn3r · February 17th, 2010

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Originally Posted by Zamamee

That just seems very weird...sounds like she either has some sort of commitment issues (I've had to deal with this sort of thing), or maybe she's just not that into the relationship.

The not-letting-me take her home thing, was over a year ago. But, she still does the thing about not asking her parents about really simple stuff.

***>Omen<*** · February 17th, 2010

Well like I said, I didn't read all the posts, but that "pathetic excuse" part didn't exactly sound understanding, thus my comments that sounded to label Zam unfairly. Sorry if I offended, but that way of describing her refusal came off sounding like the typical girl a week frat house talk that some would brag about. Women aren't belt notches, they're people, and they should be treated that way in person and conversation.

And while I admit I may have unfairly assumed, one cannot really prove commitment by having been with the same gal 2 or 3 yrs. A lot of guys hang on just for the sex, never intending to commit to anything more. That it was said she's beautiful if anything would indicate the physicality of the relationship is first priority. Again an assumption, but based on the words used. Hard to really know all the details from mere forum chat.

After reading more about Strat's situation since my last response though, it clearly seems to be a case of either the gal not wanting to upset what appear to be strict controlling parents, and/or she's not interested or ready for a deep relationship yet. Some still living with their parents both female and sometimes male have this reaction until they leave home and gain much more freedom. Then again, using caution when young often pays off.

Like I implied before, it looks as if moving on or at least waiting until she's on her own may be the best choice. Pressuring her now may backfire on you.