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On a college level how do you? On a college level how do you tell if a woman is interested in you and not just being nice to you ? I can get myself to socialize but being a hermit for about 13 years now my face spazzes a bit in shyness. I did ok though. She has beautiful eyes. Well I do not need to force myself to socialize,I am attracted to her for the right reasons and do not have to try hard to be. I can talk to her just fine considering my social health ...:lol: I do not want to hit on a married/ dating woman. Guys are allowed to be blunt and ask questions and I have the confidence to ask 2 questions that I want the answers to ,but I do not know how to ask her them. How old are you . Are you taken. How can I get the answers with or without asking ? Are their tale tell signs to realizing if a woman is attracted to you? I am simply interested in her , and would like a relationship but at the same time I am looking for a type of relationship. Im not twitter patted yet. |
Re: On a college level how do you? Asking a Woman her age is usually frowned upon, so I'd try another route to find out that information. As for asking her if she is taken, instead, why not ask if she'd like to go out for a drink sometime? If taken, she'll likely say so then, and you'll never had needed to ask. ;) |
Re: On a college level how do you? Don't ask either, time (with her) will tell. |
Re: On a college level how do you? Indeed. If there's an attraction going both ways between you then you'll end up spending time together as friends, and consequently you'll find out those things (and more) about her. If there isn't then you don't need to know the answer, so don't wreck a potential friendship by asking them. There are ways to tell if someone likes you through body language, how they act and so on but Google can tell you plenty about that. However, bear in mind that they don't apply to everyone. Recently, a friend of mine made the mistake of assuming that a girl was in love with him because of the way she looked at him. What the genius didn't notice was that she's a very 'eye-contacty' person (and also one of my best friends, so I know her pretty well). She makes and keeps eye contact a lot more than a 'normal' person, and almost never breaks that eye contact. It freaks a lot of people out, some people like me aren't fazed by it and a very small minority of people just get the wrong idea entirely. |
Re: On a college level how do you? If she "puts out" for you..she might like you.... ...or she is just a easy girl...in which case..can I have her number? |
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Re: On a college level how do you? It may not have been the most helpful comment, but depending on the girl it could be applied at college level. I'd be bloody worried if a pre-schooler was putting out... |
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Kids make jokes like that , I mean come on its not very mature....or is it? |
Re: On a college level how do you? Just because it sounds immature doesn't mean it's wrong. Some girls are like that, so as I said it depends on the girl. I'd say it's pretty rare, but it's certainly one way for a girl to show interest. |
Re: On a college level how do you? I do agree with Archaon some girls are usualy like that my friend's sister is like that if guys ask her for her number she will proablly give it to you lol. But back to the topic. I would just hang out with her be like hah i think my friend is single you would be perfect for him and well she would say no if she was in a relationship of course. Or maybe go if you two are maybe at starbucks just chatting be like after like 10 previous questions asked be like So are you seeing anyone? |
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Re: On a college level how do you? Never...seriously..I am not joking...go out with a person with your mind set to "relationship". That smacks of desperation. Go out with the intent of getting to know some one. nothing more. Honestly...most girls know what there intention with you is going to be within the first 15 minutes of meeting you. Just be yourself. Don't be too forward. Let it come naturally. Ask them out for drinks or whatever...NOT dinner...like a quick bite or invite them to a show(music). Desperation is smelly, & you don't want to be smelly. I say not dinner at first, because dinner can imply they "owe" you something. Straight up...all jokes aside. I KNOW what I am talking about. I played the field for a good 10 years before I met the woman who would become my wife, & I didn't spend many lonely nights by myself. |
Re: On a college level how do you? That's a fair point. I think calling it desperation is a bit harsh, however there's certainly a lot of truth in what Chocula said. At this stage, even if you like her, it doesn't sound like you know her anywhere near well enough to seriously be considering a long-term relationship with her. The only way (in my opinion) where you should be jumping straight into relationship territory is if you know someone well enough to make the initial 'having fun and getting to know each other' part completely pointless, because you already know each other and you've been having fun together for a long time. Given that you don't even know how old she is, you don't. Nowhere bloody near. |
Re: On a college level how do you? I never knew there was a college method of wooing women . . |
Re: On a college level how do you? I believe it's his way of saying "Holy shit! I've just realised that I'm not 14 anymore and that the women I'm interested in are adults now. What the hell do I do about it?". |
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:bows: Anyone have good tips pm me. I never had a father that talked to me about this sort of stuff. |
Re: On a college level how do you? I didn't know that mate, but to be honest I've never talked to my dad about women. Not once. If you've got any close friends who actually know you and have experience with this sort of thing, talking to them might be more productive. Male or female doesn't matter, as long as they're willing to help (and with women that they're not the type to be offended by you talking about other women). |
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I Came Back for the Science (WIP) - KHInsider.com Forums Same sig as coco , I see it as a sign some how. |
Re: On a college level how do you? In that case, to be blunt you might be better off making some new ones before you go for a bigger 'prize'. Start with the basics, you know? Rushing it won't get you anywhere. |
Re: On a college level how do you? I don’t know briankory, this just might be one of those trial and error things for you. It’s different for everybody I’d imagine. For me personally, I’m a very sexual creature by nature. I pick up on pheromones big time and that usually is the “eye-opener” that this is more than just a casual conversation or friendship. I often will drop little jokes or polite comments hinting at my intentions and if accepted…well, this is the icebreaker for the both of us, usually continues with casual conversation and moves toward subjects that are of interest to her primarily…and while this is happening I check for clues that she will throw my way directly or indirectly based on my response; like how she moves. Women often will discretely “flaunt” (sometimes consciously sometimes not) with the intent of determining if we have an attraction to them physically (even if nothing ever comes of it, women still like to know). The way her eyes dilate and react to my presence, her proximity to mine, so on and so forth. Course this is all happening in the now at lightening speed, but it’s something I’ve always picked up on. In all cases from my experience, lust preempted long-term relationships – but it depends on your objective. Are you looking for physical relationship or long-term with this young lady? From experience (and I didn’t know at the time) hands off the married ones, let them fulfill whatever last ditch hormonal fantasy from someone else. At 18 I allowed myself to seduce and be seduced by a drop-dead gorgeous 35 year-old brunette I was attending college with who “re-educated” me on my so-called skills in the bedroom…what I didn’t know was that she was married, a fact I found out a few days later and he wanted to kill the S.O.B. who’d been with his lady (thankfully he never found out). So, not a good idea…unless getting F’ked up is something you’re looking forward to. |
Re: On a college level how do you? The Best advice, like Chocula said, is to be yourself. Don't try to be someone else because as they get to know you better, they will realize it's not you... |
Re: On a college level how do you? Go and have coffee, lunch, or drinks. And just chat. |
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