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Liquid fire April 6th, 2008 11:05 AM

On a college level how do you?
 
On a college level how do you tell if a woman is interested in you and not just being nice to you ? I can get myself to socialize but being a hermit for about 13 years now my face spazzes a bit in shyness. I did ok though. She has beautiful eyes. Well I do not need to force myself to socialize,I am attracted to her for the right reasons and do not have to try hard to be. I can talk to her just fine considering my social health ...:lol:

I do not want to hit on a married/ dating woman. Guys are allowed to be blunt and ask questions and I have the confidence to ask 2 questions that I want the answers to ,but I do not know how to ask her them.

How old are you .

Are you taken.

How can I get the answers with or without asking ?

Are their tale tell signs to realizing if a woman is attracted to you?

I am simply interested in her , and would like a relationship but at the same time I am looking for a type of relationship. Im not twitter patted yet.

Flash525 April 6th, 2008 11:09 AM

Re: On a college level how do you?
 
Asking a Woman her age is usually frowned upon, so I'd try another route to find out that information. As for asking her if she is taken, instead, why not ask if she'd like to go out for a drink sometime? If taken, she'll likely say so then, and you'll never had needed to ask. ;)

Griffin_NL April 6th, 2008 11:53 AM

Re: On a college level how do you?
 
Don't ask either, time (with her) will tell.

Bs|Archaon April 6th, 2008 12:03 PM

Re: On a college level how do you?
 
Indeed. If there's an attraction going both ways between you then you'll end up spending time together as friends, and consequently you'll find out those things (and more) about her. If there isn't then you don't need to know the answer, so don't wreck a potential friendship by asking them.

There are ways to tell if someone likes you through body language, how they act and so on but Google can tell you plenty about that. However, bear in mind that they don't apply to everyone. Recently, a friend of mine made the mistake of assuming that a girl was in love with him because of the way she looked at him. What the genius didn't notice was that she's a very 'eye-contacty' person (and also one of my best friends, so I know her pretty well). She makes and keeps eye contact a lot more than a 'normal' person, and almost never breaks that eye contact. It freaks a lot of people out, some people like me aren't fazed by it and a very small minority of people just get the wrong idea entirely.

Chocu1a April 6th, 2008 12:32 PM

Re: On a college level how do you?
 
If she "puts out" for you..she might like you....



...or she is just a easy girl...in which case..can I have her number?

Liquid fire April 6th, 2008 12:52 PM

Re: On a college level how do you?
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by Count_Chocu1a (Post 4292563)
If she "puts out" for you..she might like you....



...or she is just a easy girl...in which case..can I have her number?

..... I was asking for a college level of advice not a pre school/ grade school level.

Bs|Archaon April 6th, 2008 01:00 PM

Re: On a college level how do you?
 
It may not have been the most helpful comment, but depending on the girl it could be applied at college level. I'd be bloody worried if a pre-schooler was putting out...

Liquid fire April 6th, 2008 01:02 PM

Re: On a college level how do you?
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by Bs|Archaon (Post 4292596)
I'd be bloody worried if a pre-schooler was putting out...

Im referring to the joke. Perhaps Im too uptight but I thought it was disrespectful to some people. I mean yes their is a sexual attraction but its not the driving force , atleast I do not think that it is. I am looking for a relationship , should I not be?

Kids make jokes like that , I mean come on its not very mature....or is it?

Bs|Archaon April 6th, 2008 01:08 PM

Re: On a college level how do you?
 
Just because it sounds immature doesn't mean it's wrong. Some girls are like that, so as I said it depends on the girl. I'd say it's pretty rare, but it's certainly one way for a girl to show interest.

[ST]PAdm-Medafusion April 6th, 2008 01:43 PM

Re: On a college level how do you?
 
I do agree with Archaon some girls are usualy like that my friend's sister is like that if guys ask her for her number she will proablly give it to you lol. But back to the topic. I would just hang out with her be like hah i think my friend is single you would be perfect for him and well she would say no if she was in a relationship of course. Or maybe go if you two are maybe at starbucks just chatting be like after like 10 previous questions asked be like So are you seeing anyone?


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