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Re: On a college level how do you? Never...seriously..I am not joking...go out with a person with your mind set to "relationship". That smacks of desperation. Go out with the intent of getting to know some one. nothing more. Honestly...most girls know what there intention with you is going to be within the first 15 minutes of meeting you. Just be yourself. Don't be too forward. Let it come naturally. Ask them out for drinks or whatever...NOT dinner...like a quick bite or invite them to a show(music). Desperation is smelly, & you don't want to be smelly. I say not dinner at first, because dinner can imply they "owe" you something. Straight up...all jokes aside. I KNOW what I am talking about. I played the field for a good 10 years before I met the woman who would become my wife, & I didn't spend many lonely nights by myself. |
Re: On a college level how do you? That's a fair point. I think calling it desperation is a bit harsh, however there's certainly a lot of truth in what Chocula said. At this stage, even if you like her, it doesn't sound like you know her anywhere near well enough to seriously be considering a long-term relationship with her. The only way (in my opinion) where you should be jumping straight into relationship territory is if you know someone well enough to make the initial 'having fun and getting to know each other' part completely pointless, because you already know each other and you've been having fun together for a long time. Given that you don't even know how old she is, you don't. Nowhere bloody near. |
Re: On a college level how do you? I never knew there was a college method of wooing women . . |
Re: On a college level how do you? I believe it's his way of saying "Holy shit! I've just realised that I'm not 14 anymore and that the women I'm interested in are adults now. What the hell do I do about it?". |
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:bows: Anyone have good tips pm me. I never had a father that talked to me about this sort of stuff. |
Re: On a college level how do you? I didn't know that mate, but to be honest I've never talked to my dad about women. Not once. If you've got any close friends who actually know you and have experience with this sort of thing, talking to them might be more productive. Male or female doesn't matter, as long as they're willing to help (and with women that they're not the type to be offended by you talking about other women). |
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I Came Back for the Science (WIP) - KHInsider.com Forums Same sig as coco , I see it as a sign some how. |
Re: On a college level how do you? In that case, to be blunt you might be better off making some new ones before you go for a bigger 'prize'. Start with the basics, you know? Rushing it won't get you anywhere. |
Re: On a college level how do you? I don’t know briankory, this just might be one of those trial and error things for you. It’s different for everybody I’d imagine. For me personally, I’m a very sexual creature by nature. I pick up on pheromones big time and that usually is the “eye-opener” that this is more than just a casual conversation or friendship. I often will drop little jokes or polite comments hinting at my intentions and if accepted…well, this is the icebreaker for the both of us, usually continues with casual conversation and moves toward subjects that are of interest to her primarily…and while this is happening I check for clues that she will throw my way directly or indirectly based on my response; like how she moves. Women often will discretely “flaunt” (sometimes consciously sometimes not) with the intent of determining if we have an attraction to them physically (even if nothing ever comes of it, women still like to know). The way her eyes dilate and react to my presence, her proximity to mine, so on and so forth. Course this is all happening in the now at lightening speed, but it’s something I’ve always picked up on. In all cases from my experience, lust preempted long-term relationships – but it depends on your objective. Are you looking for physical relationship or long-term with this young lady? From experience (and I didn’t know at the time) hands off the married ones, let them fulfill whatever last ditch hormonal fantasy from someone else. At 18 I allowed myself to seduce and be seduced by a drop-dead gorgeous 35 year-old brunette I was attending college with who “re-educated” me on my so-called skills in the bedroom…what I didn’t know was that she was married, a fact I found out a few days later and he wanted to kill the S.O.B. who’d been with his lady (thankfully he never found out). So, not a good idea…unless getting F’ked up is something you’re looking forward to. |
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