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Sorry I'm not the type to give advice but.. If i were you I would go for the one you feel the stronger feelings for.

You aren't going to get it in a gaming forum.

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Eh, go and watch them be stupid. Realizing you are a genius in a sea of drunken idiots makes anyone feel better.

I would say that you should stay friends with them, but at the same time move on. Keep on the hunt, and probabality will come out in your favor in the end.

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That's girls, they just need a shoulder to cry on and don't expect anyone to have interest in them what so ever.
But dude, don't feel bad about it, I mean; how long have you been single now? the world doens't end when you don't have a relationship. In fact, I love being single after all that time.

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Yea Alcohol... :nodding:


STFU Baney..



Yea, this is a really crappy situation... Me thinks if she gets upset again and wants to talk. You should wait for the right opportunity and just tell her : How hard it is to listen because you have alot of feelings for her. And just let her know how much she hurt you. Try to show a little emotion, women like that... But don't let your emotions get out of hand. It could be dangerous for your relationship.


Sorry about your problem. Hope this helps. But, do what fits her personallity. I don't know how she thinks so.... :uhm:

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Evil, evil people. You need someone to take to a dance. You pay for the ticket, buy them flowers, and the whole 9 yards. You end up liking the girl after the night is over, but she does not like you. She liked you wallet, and nothing more.

After I broke up with my GF, I loved it. After about 2 months, the single-ness is becomming boring. I need someone to go places with on the weekend.

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Or even someone to just sit around the house with... Well, sitting around bored usually leads to... :naughty:

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If you consider them to be your friends, leave it then. I had plenty of times were I just had wonderfull friendships with certain ladies and once we got dated and all, everything just turned out wrong. Now I just try to keep as many of them as friends, nothing more, nothing less.

But if you'd consider them to be possible girlfriends, just observe both of them and pick one of them. Start dating, etc, etc. If that one turns out wrong try to remain friends and go for the other one. Just don't do em both. Backfired on me once. Got a bit to greedy :naughty:

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In the end, I did decide to head down to one of the nightclubs and met up with a few mates. Got some vodka shots in, and decided to have a giggle at the chavs making twats out of themselves. I put my mind to rest by not thinking about the situation, and instead had a good time. Alcohol really is the solution to all of lifes problems.

But that would put me in the 'friend zone' thus rendering it impossible to start any relationship being more than a friend. I like them too much to put them in the friend zone...

But that's the thing; which one do I go for? It's incredibily stupid how I got myself into this mess, and now I come here asking for advice. I'm a fool, and a definitive hopeless romantic. I like them both, and have a lot in common with each. I'd say more so with Kez, but she's back with her ex after I gave her the shoulder to cry on after she split up with him. And Rachael ain't exactly free at the moment either. I need to think this through...

Anyway, thank you all for you advice. Some of it has been really great to read and take to heart, and then there's the more retarded comments from insignificant members but I won't waste my time bitching about them. I have more pressing matters to deal with.

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It's not stupid how you got into it, it just happends.
If Kez is back with her ex, fine, just remain friends untill time brings you together. Same goes for Rachael, if she's taken to bad for her in a way. Just be single for a while and enjoy it. Mabye you'll stumble across some other chick and get something beautifull. My advice is just to let things happen.

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For the best advice you probably should ask people that know you (and/or these girls). But anyway, I would try to remain friends with both of them. Be kind and suportive and stay in touch. If either of them starts to grow feelings for you they will let you know I suppose. It must be difficult though if you wouldn't mind taking it one step further.

If you really can't "just stay friends" you would have to tell both you begin to feel more then just friendship but this could mean A) they "bite" and start a relationship B) They decline your requist and you might even lose them as a friend.

It's up to you, are you really sure you are in love with both of them or is it a feeling of just "really liking them" (later to discover it's not really falling in love with them either and "good friends" being just fine or for the best) ? Depending on that you may or may not wish to move.

Sorry if I'm rather useless, this is just my personal opinion/thought as an unexperienced person. I myself don't make a move unless flirted with and girls haven't done that so far. I'm too shy (or too afraid to get on the bad side of the girl "zomg he wants more now I will start to think he will always hit on me for ethernity" ).